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Jay_Bird · Sep 11, 2008, 11:01 AM

Kevin that was a pretty clever ideal bro

Lmao,if/when she starts calling me,I'm going to put that as her name "ignore ex"

I agree with you guys

It has to be out of sight out of mind

I was on myspace,and I wanted to see if she deleted me,but she didn't cause she was still on my profile

And I notice her friend left her a comment that said

"boys will come and go....don't worry about it,only time will tell"

That comment let me know,she is "worried" about it and have been talking about it to her friends

But I'm not going to even go back on myspace anymore,because its not good for me

I am on day 3,and everything is going good

Seems like this week have been moving fast

jjwoodhull · Sep 11, 2008, 11:19 AM

Stay strong! :)

Kevin_s · Sep 11, 2008, 03:55 PM

To be perfectly honest, you can't really assume that what the friend said is what you make of it. It could always mean something completely different. I would suggest that you don't delete the girl from myspace, but you can block her account for what you don't want. (You can block messages, viewing pictures, etc.)

I've been having a hard time trying not to talk to my now ex after 2.5 years, I just don't think she cares anymore so you just have to keep on moving forward.

Originally Posted by Jay_Bird

kevin that was a pretty clever ideal bro

lmao,if/when she starts calling me,I'm going to put that as her name "ignore ex"

I agree with you guys

it has to be out of sight out of mind

I was on myspace,and I wanted to see if she deleted me,but she didn't cause she was still on my profile

and I notice her friend left her a comment that said

"boys will come and go....don't worry about it,only time will tell"

that comment let me know,she is "worried" about it and have been talking about it to her friends

but I'm not going to even go back on myspace anymore,because its not good for me

I am on day 3,and everything is going good

seems like this week have been moving fast

Jay_Bird · Sep 11, 2008, 05:23 PM

Originally Posted by Kevin_s

To be perfectly honest, you can't really assume that what the friend said is what you make of it. It could always mean something completely different. I would suggest that you don't delete the girl from myspace, but you can block her account for what you don't want. (You can block messages, viewing pictures, etc.)

I've been having a hard time trying not to talk to my now ex after 2.5 years, I just don't think she cares anymore so you just have to keep on moving forward.

Geez 2 and a half years

She never tried to contact you again... and how long did it finally take you to move on?

Kevin_s · Sep 11, 2008, 05:31 PM

Originally Posted by Jay_Bird

geez 2 and a half years

she never tried to contact you again........and how long did it finally take you to move on?

Well this only happened almost 3 weeks ago that she dumped me. Our 2.5 year anniversary was August 16th. August 23rd she dumps me.

I still haven't really moved on. I miss her terribly, but most of all I just wish I could have some answers from her.

I just have to focus on makin' that money instead. If she comes back she comes back, if she doesn't whatever. Either way I don't think I'll be taking her back. She cares more about partying than someone who took her out of a bad situation, and gave her a new life anyway.

ylaira · Sep 11, 2008, 05:44 PM

With all due respect to all 3 pages posts here, I do not believe she doesnt love you anymore. She still cares for you or else she will not be jealous and will never bother you anymore.

You know what I think the problem is? You don't know her well. I understand you are confused because you don't when she mean things or not. Ask long time partners.

If you are tired trying to understand her, then go NC.

Best of luck to you, buddy.

Jay_Bird · Sep 11, 2008, 07:26 PM

Originally Posted by ylaira

With all due respect to all 3 pages posts here, I do not believe she doesnt love you anymore. She still cares for you or else she will not be jealous and will never bother you anymore.

You know what I think the problem is? You don't know her well. I understand you are confused because you don't when she mean things or not. Ask long time partners.

If you are tired trying to understand her, then go NC.

Best of luck to you, buddy.

You are right though

We don't know each other that well,we hooked up so fast,and I started staying at her apt

But I truly did not know who she was...

But I am tired of understanding her,I really am

I just need time to clear my head,and get myself back on track

Because I have never acted desperate like this before in my life,not in past relationships or anything

Once I get myself back on track,I know everything will be good

wish thinking · Sep 11, 2008, 07:58 PM

OK she was not in love... she was horny an she probobly couldn't get a date.
She's using you until someone else comes along. Your her back up . Be strong an leave it alone. If she calls ingnore her, don't give in. the more you do the worse its going to get .

Kevin_s · Sep 12, 2008, 12:18 AM

Here you go Jay_Bird.

Just in case, here is an old thread that I started a little bit ago. Let's get it stickied!

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...up-253047.html

Jay_Bird · Sep 12, 2008, 12:20 AM

Thanks

Kevin_s · Sep 12, 2008, 12:31 AM

I would never expect Talaniman to say something like what you have in your quote bro! HAHAHAH

Jay_Bird · Sep 12, 2008, 10:07 AM

Originally Posted by Kevin_s

I would never expect Talaniman to say something like what you have in your quote bro! HAHAHAH

Lol,its true though

Jay_Bird · Sep 16, 2008, 05:18 AM

This ing sucks you

I haven't talked to her in 7 days

I happen to look on her myspace

And it says that she is in a relationship

And on her comments,two of friends is saying she is months def not single anymore

This sucks,I'm not going to contact her

But can you guys help me out

Romefalls19 · Sep 16, 2008, 05:32 AM

Yea, stay away from her myspace. Simply delete her off your friends list, make a list of crap she did that made you angry and every time you think about going back or calling her, read that list. You are better than someone who jumps into a relationship that quickly

Jay_Bird · Sep 16, 2008, 05:42 AM

Originally Posted by Romefalls19

Yea, stay away from her myspace. Simply delete her off your friends list, make a list of crap she did that made you angry and every time you think about going back or calling her, read that list. You are better than someone who jumps into a relationship that quickly

I agree

Something really is wrong with that chick,she was just kissing on me last week

Romefalls19 · Sep 16, 2008, 05:45 AM

Yep, a quote from the movie "In Hell" that I used to help me get over my ex.

"Usually when people are sad, they don't do anything. They just cry over their condition. But when they get angry, they bring about a change."

jjwoodhull · Sep 16, 2008, 05:52 AM

Stay away from her myspace, don't go to places you went to with her, don't do things that remind you of her. Keep up the NC. Every day will get a little bit easier.

talaniman · Sep 16, 2008, 06:15 AM

Don't torture yourself by seeing what she is up to. If you were doing your own thing, when would you have time to worry about her life?? Get up, and get busy!

bigbird213 · Sep 16, 2008, 07:12 AM

I agree with the above...

Get rid of her myspace. Try to find what motivates you to change, when you find it... hold onto it..

Also, remember how you feel now next time your tempted to snoop...

Jay_Bird · Sep 16, 2008, 07:39 AM

But by deleting her myspace

Won't that show that she got to me??

I don't want her to know that she got to me

What you guys think?