[bEaUtIfUlbRuNeTtE]

If you were dating him at the time he cheated then it's not okay, at least in my book.

[mimi03]

I didn't want the military life, didn't want to move away from my family. And, when I was supposed to be there for him

I think that was a pretty reasonable concern afterall not only would he be commiting to this new lifestyle...so would you, bottom line: the both of you should have been there for each other. Why are you so one sided?

Its the time we are APART that sh*t always happens.

Ding Ding Ding: that 's the PROBLEM:: You shouldnt have to worry or guess if he's engaging in undesirable behavior because he's not in your presence...He should be the same person whether the both of you are in the same room or opposite sides of the country!

Its really weird.

It's really not that weird, people live double lives all of the time. Your hubby's an opportunist. He's good when you're there but his behavior is questionable (to say the least) when you arent around. What's weird is that you assume all responsiblilty and allow yourself to be treated this badly.


Its like he is 2 totally different ppl. Hes the man I love and married when we are together.. but when we are apart... i feel like I could ring his neck. But the moment we get back together... everything is normal again

I honestly dont understand how you have the restraint to not resent or react to this behavior doesnt it feel terrible knowing just how two faced he is...Is the "good" time spent with him really worth the torment and disrespect of the bad???

Good luck... ~Either you accept him or you don't!~