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damaged · Jun 4, 2008, 08:56 AM

Originally Posted by BlitzTer

is hard for me to bring up a child by myself and everything is very sudden T_T

You should've thought about that before.

I believe one should have a child when she is ready to take care of him/her by herself because at any time, for any reason BFs or husbands can leave.. now what's done is done...

Should you keep the baby?
That's your decision.. nobody can tell what to/what not to do.. It is up to you...

liz28 · Jun 4, 2008, 09:01 AM

Even if he wants no part of the baby life he can pay child support and help any bills, i.e childcare. Stop thinking about him and wor about the child and yourself. No guarantees but he might decide to be in the child life, not yours, once the child is born.

liz28 · Jun 4, 2008, 09:07 AM

Not to say anything wrong with you but you should counseling because your head is too cloudy and you need to clear your head. Choices need to make asap, only choices you can make because it your body and you walk in your own shoes. Is your friends/family supportive?

BlitzTer · Jun 4, 2008, 09:12 AM

Not really.my family was very angry with him and keep calling me to get the baby out of my life but I don't wan to kill a life.I now very confuse

damaged · Jun 4, 2008, 09:16 AM

Then if you don't want to get rid of the baby don't do it... You don't have to do anything you don't want 2... THere must be some kind of place were they help single moms or something.. do some research...

liz28 · Jun 4, 2008, 09:20 AM

Have you been getting prenatal care?

I know that your confused right now I was that way when I got pregnant, but there are support groups that can help you. You can Google it. You don't have anyone that is supportive of you or helping you now?

BMI · Jun 4, 2008, 09:41 AM

Quite a tale I'd say.

First off, most everyone here is jumping the gun a bit in my opinion. What is this guys big huge crime that has some up and arms?? He was speaking to another girl over MSN? No indication of what was being said or whehter this was a friend or not either!! Sounds like 90% of guys on these social networks.

Let me submit that any guy on Facebook, MSN, Myspace does not strictly speak to guys only, that's obvious. In a perfect world that would be the case. So again, what's his crime that is attracting all this negativity??

The OP on the otherhand has turned over every single stone to uncover some "truth" as to what is going on (lack of trust maybe?) HE'S got a friend that happens to be a female and they chat, WOW!

All this talk of disrespecting you and soon is a bit misplaced given the information provided. I do think that he could have handled it a thousand times better but so could have you from the beginning, no offence intended but you both sound quite immature.

What I get is that he is conversing with a girl, you are jealous as heck, you break up with him over it, beg him back, than bash him for behaving rudely and uncaring towards you, yet he is the big bad wolf in all of this? I don't see this view at all folks.

Finally, with a child involved these immature situations should have been resolved long ago. It does not appear that the child is factoring in to either of your decisions and it speaks plenty about... well... thats not for me to say.

Please talk to your parents, adults should be counselled. You two are not capable of resolving this yourselves, so far as you've shown.

cfloveu · Jun 4, 2008, 10:37 AM

BlitzTer: My opinion is little different. I wouldn say your relations wouldn workout. In every relation there are ups and downs. Humans do not value those which he possess. He doesn't understand the importance of your love and your presence in his life.
And sometimes what we see from our bare eyes, might be a fake or false thing.Try to make him feel you and your love. He should understand what's missing in his life (that is you). True love wins back the love.