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    JBeaucaire Posts: 5,426, Reputation: 997
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    #21

    May 23, 2008, 09:01 AM
    My CONTINUED prayer for you now is that you can find SOME way to actually NOT receive/read messages from her anymore. Any words at all that originate in her mind and end up in your brain = pain.

    All of this is so avoidable. That note doesn't change anything you've described so far, it is just more of the same old "me me me" stuff she's been doing all along.

    Sheesh, someone like you who cares so deeply and feels so strongly... IMAGINE what your life would be with someone who treats you like a man! Wouldn't that be amazing!
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    talaniman Posts: 54,325, Reputation: 10855
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    #22

    May 23, 2008, 09:51 AM
    Ignore her. She wanted a break, what are you a yoyo!
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    #23

    May 23, 2008, 11:26 AM
    Tal your so right. She need to know that I am not going to be walked over. I will be honest guys this week has been one hell of a week for me, AND I mean ME. I really thought about making myself a happier person since the break and I have looked in areas in which I can improve my with or without My gf/ex..
    Its opened my eyes to a lot of things..

    I need more time to think about it. Going to a festival tomorrow, probably won't be a good idea for the head but it a bank holiday here. Should be at a wedding but she messed it up so going to party like a mad man tomorrow..

    Thanks all
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    touch107fm Posts: 12, Reputation: 1
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    #24

    Jun 3, 2008, 11:19 AM
    Hi all,

    I know its being a while since I posted I have being keeping a eye on this site but not as much as when my head was up my with my relationship.

    I first of all would like to thank al of those who shared there comments and give me some solid advice. When your in a relationship with someone and you think you have something special with them, when this is taken away you feel lost and confused. I went through all the motions, could'nt sleep, all I could think about was her. God it really is hell. I would have rather have gotten beaten up than that.

    So what happened next, well I did the whole NC thing for ages. She changed her mind at the last min about the going to the wedding in fact she changed her mind about breaking with me. I was so angry with her and thought maybe I was better off without her so I did...
    For the next few days she did everything in her powers to get me back. I love this women but will this happen again! I kept on asking myself this. I decided to go for a talk with her and see what she had to say.
    She convinced me that she was sincere and truly wants me back. She said she thought she it was a good idea going on a break , she was confused about the whole being with the same guy for the rest of her life as she is just out of collage (I never asked her to marry me or anything like that).
    So to cut a long story short we are back together now and we are stronger than ever.. from all this I have learnt so much about myself and foucused on myself for a change. I feel good about this maybe more so than the fact we are back together.

    Once again thanks all
    D
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    #25

    Jun 3, 2008, 11:36 AM
    Great! It's always nice to hear a success story once in awhile... Keep us updated on how things are going!
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    #26

    Jun 3, 2008, 11:42 AM
    Hi Touch,

    Congratulations! I am so happy for you! Please keep us posted, okay?

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