[talaniman]

Never sweat the competition. Just be yourself, and do your thing with confidence. You are not his competition, you're the MAN. Act like it, and keep the head up.

[Shaballo]

I have having trouble with communication, she says that it is hard to talk to me and i am trying to figure out a way to change that. we know a lot about each other, but i sometime can't think of anything say. Then there a loooooonnnnnggggg silence what are good topics that will keep the conversation going?

Well thanks for all of your input, we are experiencing things that we haven't before. We have become more open with each other, and I am sure that this is just one more step to a greater and more personal relationship. As it turns out she did tell this guy to step aside. Although they are still friends. Through the past 3 weeks I have learned more about myself than I could have possibly imagined. I am now going to a phyc doctor for some help about my dep. I am not scared anymore.