Originally Posted by
talaniman
No matter what happens, always forgive yourself, and then move on. I understand amends, as long as your honest with yourself, and willing to accept the consequences. I understand falling off the wagon, as long as you get back on. Making amends is a major step to healing, but honestly from what I have read about you, you owe him nothing. Even as you have explained it here, I see no debt to him, at all. Hope you have forgiven the most important one in the equation, and thats you!
As obvious as it is to forgive oneself, it is often the hardest thing to do. It's easier to forgive others than ourselves - quite a strange contrast really isn't it, nevertheless I'm working on it.
