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    #21

    Feb 22, 2008, 11:21 PM
    If he is a sociopath nothing really matters to him... move on without him and find a life for yourself. Sociopaths are great con artists and can convince you of anything.
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    Feb 23, 2008, 10:11 AM
    I think I left him because I thought I quit caring about him. And we never see each other.
    Now I realize I do care but I just don't want to be hurt anymore and he's like a stranger to me and I neeed someone who's there for me.
    And now I can't think about all the times he hurt me. I wish I could just think about that so I wouldn't hurt as bad now. I just keep thinking of all the times when it really seemed like he did love me and things changed and I think its from not seeing him.
    Maybe if I would have just waited a few weeks things would be better.
    But he still would get mad every now and then and hurt me.
    And he still won't even hold hands with me or anything
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    #23

    Feb 23, 2008, 10:23 AM
    You have to realize in any relationship, even the MOST abusive, the woman often tends to remember the past in an idealistic romanticized way. As time goes on they tend to block the negative hurts to a minimal numb.
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    #24

    Feb 23, 2008, 10:47 AM
    Run from him and don't look back.
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    #25

    Feb 23, 2008, 11:44 AM
    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...ip-163044.html, This is more of the same, as her other posts.
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    #26

    Feb 23, 2008, 11:48 AM
    Talaniman: Thanks for the heads up.
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    #27

    Feb 23, 2008, 09:11 PM
    I told him I found someone else. And then he wanted me back and I took him back.
    Now I kind of miss talking to the other guy. I swore on everything I would never talk to him again and I wouldn't do this to him again.
    Things are going great now
    But what should I do?

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