[talaniman]

Who said doing the right thing was easy, I know its not. Stop worring about her, and take care of you. We all forget, through our heart break, to love ourselves, and put the feelings of the ex first. That's why cutting contact to heal, is the right thing to do. Your right, you can do this.

[jolienoire]

Won't I look like the A$$ if I stop all contact with her? She is still making plans to do things with me. Thats why its so damn confusing. Is she just making plans because she knows that I can't say no? That I can be in her life when it's convenient for her? I have "girl" friends that I have known for years. Doesn't she have the right to have "guy" friends? Are there any women who have taken a break and actually gotten back together with their boyfriends?

No you wouldn't if you stop contact with her, she will feel out of place because right now the ball is in her court, turn the tables don't contact her for your sake... Why is she still calling you and making plans to be with you? To keep you just in case it doesn't work out with the "friend" unfortnately there are selfish people out there who would throw away a relationship for a fling or two.. I know it sucks but its true...

Are there any women who have taken a break and actually gotten back together with their boyfriends?

Yes, I have a few months ago I know I was in the same situation I bet a few people remember I was really upset about it, I gave him the space he gave me space and there was no contact for 2 months, he came back because I didn't nag him or contact him, and he didn't contact me either but for me I didn't see anyone else. I took those 2 months and did things for myself... I didn't get involved with anyone because how could you be taking a break to move on to the next one? Besides, it will only hurt her if she isn't being honest with you about this guy in the long run, because what comes around goes around, She broke up with you to not feel guilty, so if she ever came back she would say well We weren't together and you shouldn't care what she did while you were broken up. That's a classic one! Trust me, people are like that.

[CaribMan]

that's a lovely success story jolie. I wish I can come back in a few months and write one of my own. Right now I can't sleep and I have work in 8 hrs, I keep thinking of the days me and my x we first went out what good times we had. Still trying to move on but I can't seem to get the thought outa my head. I know its going to take some time to get use and get good at being alone... time is a B1!tch sometimes

[jolienoire]

thats a lovely success story jolie. i wish i can come back in a few months and write one of my own. right now i can't sleep and i have work in 8 hrs, i keep thinking of the the days me and my x we first went out what good times we had. still trying to move on but i can't seem to get the thought outa my head. i know its gonna take some time to get use and get good at being alone.....time is a B1!tch sometimes

Hey you may come back in a few months and read this and say what the heck was I thinking... I am much happier with myself now... These are fresh wounds, but in time they will heal, and you will see... Don't jump into a rebound relationship and please follow No contact... Unless you like to be hanging on the limb... Which I doubt... Do things for yourself work on your house, yourself... and everything will work out trust me... It always does... just don't contact her...

[remedy07]

Wow... I know what this is it kind of happened to me.. ummm.. dont believe her.. she found someone around her age... and she tking what's new and fresh... just want some one with more excitement some one that's immature... I found some one older then me.. and I'm loving it.. I just leave the young guys alone because all they want is two things... ya money and sex of course... my relationship is great!. all you need to do is try one more time... if she don't come around then... trust me she wasn't the right one for you at all... just more as a friend type I guess... love is bound to happen.. if you really want this