RELAX. It is great that you are a virgin and to be honest, somewhat irrelevant. I think that your relationship to your father etc. is a big situation, but not insurmountable. If you are attracted to intelligent types (as described by what you like to talk about) the go to the places where these men will be-for instance Don't go to the local bar-they are NOT there.
Perhaps a swap-meet for computers, a reading club, a book club, the museum, the library.
Nice people don't rate you on your ability to kiss, have sex, your virginity status is a bonus! As well.
You need to love and respect yourself and stop with the "I only attract drunks etc. I am soooo nervous around the attractive men etc. tell yourself "I attract attactive men, I AM a beautiful woman who is desirable to all. Amny would kill to look as good as me, many would desire to be a pure virgin such as me" etc. etc. POSITIVE AFFIRMATIONS!!
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