[bushg]

Get his social security number. If you can, get a copy of both his social security card and birth certificate. Go to the post office and run a copy off it will cost you about 25 cents max.
Leave him and when your baby is born get the test he is asking for, child support will do it for you and charge him for it and make him pay.
From the sounds of it... he is too much of a mental danger to have around your child. If you keep hanging around, most likely it will turn physical.
Abusers always turn things around so that it is YOUR fault not Theirs. That way you can keep on trying to make things better and they can continue on with their abuse.

[s_cianci]

The two of you definitely have some communication problems. And that certainly doesn't bode well for two soon-to-be parents of the same child. See if you can get him to attend counseling with you. If he won't then go yourself. The two of you need to work on your interpersonal skills so that you'll be able to raise this child in a healthy manner.

[talaniman]

He may be the father, but his behavior is unnacceptable on every level. Get him out of your life and let him pay support through the court. Sorry but this A$$, doesn't deserve to be around you at this delicate stage in your life, if ever.:mad:

[AngelEyes2885]

I think you need to change your situation soon, if he is acting like that now how is he going to act when you HAVE the baby... I don't care what he is going through, no reason to treat you that way. Plus your emotions are about to go crazy.. you don't want someone who is going to treat you like that because stress will hurt the baby. Mustang is wrong, because she is in the same spot as you and she just lets it go she can't be one to give you advice. I wouldn't put up with it, when you are gone he will either want to come back or he isn't worth it, and when he sees his baby and you get a blood test if he is still an.. well you are better off!! Don't let him bring you down.. this is a joyful time for you and you should be happy!