[jonty2400]

I am divorced, and I am engaged to be married. My fiance has a 6 year old daughter. I have a 5 year old daughter and a 6 year old son.

My children are and have been happily involved in various activities. My son is in baseball and football...my daughter is in her 3rd year of dance.

This year my son told me he would like to take tap dance as well, so I enrolled him. He loves it, even though he is in a beginner class with much younger little girls. His sister thinks it great that he goes with her, and of course she has shown interest in starting baseball next year. I have always encouraged them to explore different activities, because I know someday they will find their niche and tell me what they want, and don't want to do.

Last week my fiance's Ex wife called to say she is enrolling their daughter in Poms and Cheerleading and the class is on the night we usually have their daughter at our house.

So, this week we took her to her class, and my daughter discovered that 3 of her friends from school are in the class as well. Of course she was thrilled to see them, she loved the fact that they dance (her passion), and of course she loved the big sparkling poms. My daughter begged me to join the class, and her ss2be thought it was a great idea and even walked her over (with her arm around my daughter's waist) to the enrollment table. I think it made her feel cool and like a big sister to lead my daughter.

Both girls were excited about taking the class together, but when the EX found out...she was pi_ _ed! She said it was completely unacceptable and demanded that we not do it. She said she wants her daughter to have this all to herself. She insist that her daughter needs to have her own thing...just for her. She is actually threatning to pull her daughter out of the class or drive 30 minutes away to another location, if we don't drop out.

During her verbal blast of me on the phone, she stated, "any therapist will tell you that kids need seperate activities." Well, I have searched high and low and I can't find anything that directly relates to this issue....so I am asking for your feedback.

These kids love eachother, and I feel it would help to bond the girls if they share an interest/activity.

She sounds to me like she is bitter and a tad bit jealous.. Let her know she is ONLY hurting her daughter, no one else.. Maybe that will let her know how immature she is really acting!

[startover22]

Wow, this is where I need to go to find the drama that is missing in my life. This whole thing is ridiculous, to me you sound like 15 year olds from from fighting over the same stupid guy! Good luck. The poor children. Poor children!

[startover22]

I just looked at the date on this post and it is from 2005. Wow, missed that one. Hahaha. Hope it all worked out anyway. Although it doesn't sound like it was going to!

[jonty2400]

Startover...


LOL, I know, I noticed that too!

[startover22]

Oh well it was making a good novel right?

[jonty2400]

Yeah, one hell of a novel.. A down right cat fight!