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    #21

    Aug 28, 2007, 09:22 PM
    Yup, that is wrong. I was on the pill and had two children, Norplant Implants had a daughter,

    Birth control is only control. The only 100% effective method of birth PREVENTION is abstinence. Unless you are ready to become a mother, refrain from sex.

    Now is 99% = 100%? You do the math. It also depends on how you take it as to how effective it is.

    Quote Originally Posted by cutie pie
    how should i find out what makes me feel good?

    Self exploration. MASTURBATION!!

    You really can't expect him to know what makes you feel good. You have to TEACH him.

    How many times do I have to tell you that?
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    #22

    Aug 28, 2007, 09:26 PM
    Well I got taught different I guess

    Why are you guys getting so mad seriously its just a question.. I'm not your daughter
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    Aug 28, 2007, 09:28 PM
    Yeah, you're 15, still in high school. I am 43, in nursing school, going through pregnancy and motherhood, birth control, etc.

    Guess it all depends on who teaches you. Right or wrong.
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    Aug 28, 2007, 09:30 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by cutie pie
    why are u guys getting so mad seriously its just a question..
    Cause you aren't getting it. You have to know what makes you feel good to teach your boyfriend. You really can't expect him to automatically know can you?
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    Aug 28, 2007, 09:31 PM
    Yeah and how old were u when u got pregnant?
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    Aug 28, 2007, 09:31 PM
    No I get it.. I just don't get why your getting so mad and judging me
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    Aug 28, 2007, 09:33 PM
    J9 is 100% correct... you must know how you own body works and feels in order to instruct someone else to create those same feelings. Mastubation is normal and healthy and PREGNANCY and STI(sexually transmitted infection) free... I highly recommend it over sex, for your age anyway.
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    Aug 28, 2007, 09:35 PM
    Yeah I gueess so.. I was just scared cause I didn't know what was wrong but I do now so
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    Aug 28, 2007, 09:35 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by cutie pie
    no i get it.. i just dont get why your getting so mad and judging me
    I don't think anyone is "mad", just trying to get to point across:
    1. your mentally and physically too young for sex
    2. understanding you body comes with time and experience
    3. there is nothing wrong with you at all, you simply don't know how your body works yet
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    Aug 28, 2007, 09:37 PM
    Yeah.. I got friends you feel it right away and I dono.. I guess ill need to learn about myself
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    Aug 28, 2007, 09:38 PM
    I got friends who feel it right away****

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