[turtlegirl]

That might not help your case, saying it didn't mean anything. Girls often think too much and the next thing you know she's wondering if sex with her meant anything and how much and when and all that.

Anyway, you can't change what you did. Keep yourself busy, try not to be too much of a trollop, and maybe she'll come back to you. In the meantime you may meet someone else in all your busy-ness who seems pretty cool, too.

[johnno]

She knows how much she meant to me, I told her too much, that's why she wanted a break. Thanks for the advice turtlegirl.

[Wildcat21]

I advise never sharing your feelings for a long time.

I know this is cheesy - but in Empire Strikes back - Princess Leigha says to Hans Solo - "I love you" - He says "I know"

Woma lose interest whem you share your feelings.

Sharing oyur feelings AND way too often is BAD FOR BUSINESS GUYS.

SHOW her how you feel!! Don't say it.

[turtlegirl]

That's fair advice. HAVE feelings, and show them. But yeah, maybe watch with the words at first...

[Wildcat21]

Not all woman get creeped out by a guy saying too soon how he feels - but most do. And they usually run.

You can show how you feel by doing things, listening, etc.

But actually expressing verbal or written - bad for business.

You give her the feeling of - I got you now and it's no fun anymore - game over.