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flower81 · Jun 25, 2007, 03:11 AM

Is this cheating?
Is this physcological cheating?

He flirted with 2 member...
1 saying - WINK WINK
The other
I would like to get to know u better!

Krs · Jun 25, 2007, 03:15 AM

I would confront him about it

flower81 · Jun 25, 2007, 05:19 AM

And how do I do that?
Esp if he asks how I know!!

Capuchin · Jun 25, 2007, 05:23 AM

IF he asks how you know, you tell him you went snooping through his e-mails.

You don't seem to be mature enough to be in an adult relationship. Maybe he isn't either.

Krs · Jun 26, 2007, 04:52 AM

It's a tricky one!
As Capuchin said.
If you tell him, he will ask how you know, then once you say you snopped through his emails, then that's it the ball is in his court!

Previously I did say confront him, however its probably best not to, as this scenario will definitley happen!

U could maybe ask him, what does he think of online dating? And married men registering..
However you need to wise of when to bring this up in conversation and don't make it obvious.

nicespringgirl · Jun 26, 2007, 02:03 PM

There is nothing wrong with dating website, the problem is that if he is that type pf person who will cheat on you. GO ahead test him use your registered information, see if he is that type of person

flower81 · Jul 3, 2007, 12:32 AM

Well update!
Here goes:_

He hasn't replied to "my" flirt messages... however he has flirted twice with 1 girl already and they emailed each other.. nothing to bad.. but hey I isn't impressed.
He now updated his profile and has a picture on there..
How insulting is that..

What shall I do?
How shall I say something.

I annoyed.

rol · Jul 3, 2007, 01:20 AM

Say 'Mary was on online dating the other day and told me she saw u on there, so I went to have a look, Nice pic ehh, maybe ill put my own on also since it seems I'm now a free woman"

Ha ha that will get him stewing.

flower81 · Jul 3, 2007, 02:06 AM

Its not right is it??
He has exams this wkend... shall I say something now or after?

rol · Jul 3, 2007, 02:10 AM

Yes its not right at all. Get tough with him here, perhaps its time to dump the cheat.

On his profile does it say he is single? What does it say he is looking for?

flower81 · Jul 3, 2007, 02:17 AM

Looking for a woman
Relationship status - left blank!!

When do I say something?
Before his exmas?

flower81 · Jul 3, 2007, 02:19 AM

Oh this woman from canada asked to see a photos and there he goes he puts up a photo for her...
I am so not impressed...

He was using this online dating once at home last week and I walked in and stupidly I said - what's that?
He said oh nothing I recvd the link through email.

So I went closer and said what - online dating
He said - yes
I said - did you register
And he laughed...
I said I hope your not using it
And he said AS IF...

Krs · Jul 3, 2007, 03:59 AM

That's bad!
Appraoch him saying you decided to search him on this online dating and you were NOT impressed at how detailed his description was and with a photo also..

I wouldn't have it :(

rol · Jul 3, 2007, 04:31 AM

<i said - did you register
And he laughed...
I said I hope your not using it
And he said AS IF... >

Yeah in that case approach Him directly about it.
Be tough,
It seems like he does not have much respect and think she can get away with whatever.

The thing is are you going to accept this kind of behavior or be the strong woman that a man expects to marry?

flower81 · Jul 3, 2007, 04:35 AM

Now?
Or after his exams? In 3 days time.

rol · Jul 3, 2007, 04:49 AM

Whenever YOU want.

flower81 · Jul 4, 2007, 12:40 AM

I haven't yet approached him.
I'm just scared if I tell him now al hell will break lose and he could fail his exams and I don't want that to happen.
Althou today he mailed me and asked how I was and I really want to ask him - oh how is the online dating going?? And by the way nice pic!!
What do you thinK??

Krs · Jul 4, 2007, 01:16 AM

Face to face is better I think
But a sarcastic comment like that will surely keep him on toes and put his thinking hat on. I guess...

WHY DO MEN REGISTER ON THESE SITES CAN I ASK??

flower81 · Jul 4, 2007, 07:39 AM

Guys an idea came to me head...

How about I say nothing...
Register on this online dating - add a pic of myself and then find him and flirt with him...

What do u reckon??

talaniman · Jul 4, 2007, 08:10 AM

Maybe I'm getting old, but why keep this drama going. What a waste, since you already know what he is up to, why not just drop this zero and be done with it and move on. What are you hoping for, he gets reformed, or something?? By the way, if you can't trust him, and snoop through his emails, this was already over, and you should have been long gone when you found something. Drop the games as they make everything worse, and you shouldn't have to stoop that low.