[N0help4u]

Even if nice guys finish last it is like the tortoise and the hare.
The tortoise WON in the end!

[ISneezeFunny]

Actually, in real life, the tortoise probably got ran over by the car while the hare moved out of the way.

I am that nice guy. I really am. I've been rejected by many girls. And I figured it out. Girls want... excitement. They don't want a guy that'll get them EVERYTHING they ever want. Then it's boring. They want to be treated like a princess at first, but also want a little bit of a fight left in the guy. I'm not talking about arguments, I'm talking about being decisive.

You go out to eat, you ask the girl WHAT DO YOU WANT TO EAT? That's being a nice guy. You're putting the girl first. That's fine. But every once in a while, say, I WANT TO EAT HERE. Or... IT'S A SURPRISE. WE'RE GOING TO DINNER. YOU'LL FIND OUT WHERE WE GO.

Little things like that.

Granted, I've gone off the deep end and have become a cocky and arrogant jerk, but oddly, a lot of girls find that attractive as well. Don't confuse jerk with a mean person. I'm not "mean" to the girl... but I will make jokes and make fun of her every now and then.

Essentially, I've become dr. gregory house.

[cerisa]

Girls can't see into your wallet, they don't know what you can afford. No one wants to appear to be a gold digger. Saying "where do you want to eat" may seem nice, but she is left to decide with no information of your finances. Instead ask, "do you like Chilii's, or Black Angus", which gives her a guidline of how much you want to spend. Or "pizza or burgers".
Having a set of guidelines works well in a relationship because it gives both of you some structure. Being endlessly available means you have nothing of your own important to you. Always doing things for another, without any return means you are being used, NOT GOOD! Dump that relationship now. Discusions should be polite and productive, if she has something valid to say, listen. She should do the same for you. Nice guys conversations can be akward because they are unsure of their opinions. Or unsure of how to articulate them anyway.
Make a plan, have a goal in life . Girls who fit in with your plans are the ones you are compatible with. "nice guys " actually do finish last, so what? Take your time, enjoy the ride.

[depressedhelp]

just like every nice guys out there...i am one ...and if you no that most of us ..have been thought rejected server times b.c :( " sorry you are such a nice guy....i dont want to hurt you .." or "sorry you are a really good friend..and really nice to me ...and i just can't seem to see me dating you and end up hurt you .."

so ....hahaha my questions are what so bad about nice guys ?:confused:

and should we countinues being a nice guys ?

or we stop being a nice guy ..meaning ...being a jerk ? but also meaning like just dont be too nice ? :p


go and express your feeling guys ?...this is open topic ...guys and gals all welcome....:D

in my opinion [and experences] that girls like nice guys..

I mean I think those girls are saying "your such a nice guy" as a nice way to reject u?

well if a girl will be like that.. then there not for you.

well simple math nice guy + nice girl = committed relationship =]

[Simple Asian]

NIce guys... all the way... PROUD TO BE A NICE GUY...

b.c we won the race in the end

[Silent Breeze]

NIce guys ....all the way ......PROUD TO BE A NICE GUY ......

b.c we won the race in the end

Exactly! :) :)

[red_cartoon]

so as far as pplz saying here....girls dont like guys b.c nice guys dont have confident ....?

A nice guy is also a confident guy. He is not bullying around like jerks because he knows what he is. And he does not need to dominate people around him, people naturally treats him well.

A jerk might look very confident due to his demonstration of physical or other sort of power. But deep within he is very nervous and knows that he is no match for the nice guy. That's why he would try to harass the nice guy to make the nice guy look like a loser.

[Simple Asian]

To red_cartoon : true.. nice guys have confident... hell they are confident guy... but girls always think that.. oh he is nice guys... he must be shy.. and don't have confident.. you no

[red_cartoon]

Those are the immature girls. They have a lot to learn from the world around them. They eventually learn it, through some bitter experiences usually.

[Simple Asian]

Lol... in other words... girls have to dated jerk.. before come to the nice guys...

After they got dump I meant