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curlybenswife · May 10, 2007, 02:50 PM

Giggle what more can I say ;)

JoeCanada76 · May 10, 2007, 03:20 PM

Laura, My wife likes Ty as well. We both watch Extreme home make over. Remember all that bundle of energy you heard in my voice, you never thought I would stop lol. Well, he has bounds and bounds of energy as well. We both tend to laugh with the antics of ty. I know you like him for other reasons.

I know my wife will not tell me the real reason why she likes him. Lol

Anyway, Going to eat some din din, hope you all are enjoying dinner too.

startover22 · May 10, 2007, 03:20 PM

You are too funny Joe. Eating might calm you down a bit.

J_9 · May 10, 2007, 03:24 PM

Originally Posted by Jesushelper76

Remember all that bundle of energy you heard in my voice,

Oh, yeah, I remember Baby Brother. LOL

curlybenswife · May 10, 2007, 03:36 PM

LOL I could tell you why wifey likes ty giggle but its nothing to worry about :D I'm sure we will discuss this me and wifey that is giggle we can discuss his finer points ;)

chippers · May 10, 2007, 03:39 PM

I've foiund there is no closure when it comes to death. (how I hate that word closure).
I start blubbering when I see all the things that are out for mother's day and I can't send anything to her. It's been barely 6 weeks since my Mom died and I still can't believe it.
I'm still making it day by day and the pain hasn't seemed to lessen yet.
I did't talk with her before she passed away.

J_9 · May 10, 2007, 03:41 PM

Oh, Chippers, if I could only hug you right now.

It is so hard during the first few holidays!!

curlybenswife · May 10, 2007, 03:42 PM

Oh chippers my sweet who the hell says you can't buy your mum something you go choose the most amazing plant or tree and you plant it in your back yard where you can see it everyday.
Lots of hugs to you my special sweet friend loves you xxxxx

chippers · May 10, 2007, 03:49 PM

That's a great idea. I'll plant something in our circle of friends garden for her. Dad doesn't want anyhting sent to the house and I understand that. We're not really celebrating it here either. mr. chippers is taking us to great adventure (amusement park) to see Rick springfield in concert. I can't wait. The last time I saw him was 25 years ago. I listened to his music in nursing school and passed boards.

J_9 · May 10, 2007, 03:52 PM

Thanks to you Chippers I listened to the Ricker a week ago and passed finals. Buy yourself some Mother's Day balloons and let them soar to the heavens.

Have a good time at the concert, and, oh, yeah, what is the closest airport to you? I may be having a layover there going to help my mother for a week or so. And I would love to meet you.

curlybenswife · May 10, 2007, 03:54 PM

My dads ashes got scattered t sea so I have a perminant reminder pretty much on my doorstep we all need something to focus on :D

I love you guys I'm off to bed xxxx

chippers · May 10, 2007, 03:58 PM

The closest airport to me is philadelphia international. It's about 45 minutes from my house. I'd love to meet you too. Congrats on the finals. I'm proud of you, but not surprised. You/ve got the gift.

My moms ashes are in a clock ern. Which dad calls your mother the clock.
Good night Laura. Sweet dreams. I'm confident that tomorrow will be a better day for everyone. Being it's so close to the week end. Remember I need everyone's favorite flower or plant for the friends garden.
I've got syn's, start's and alka,

J_9 · May 10, 2007, 04:02 PM

Hun, you helped me with the inspiration for the gift, as you have it also.

I will work on my layover and see if I can get it in Phili.

Allheart · May 10, 2007, 04:29 PM

Oh hugs to you chippers. Just big hugs. Absoluley plant a little tree or something in memory of Mom. Just beautiful.

Love you honey!

Originally Posted by J_9

Hun, you helped me with the inspiration for the gift, as you have it also.

I will work on my layover and see if I can get it in Phili.

That would be more than awesome... wouldn't it Chippers ;)

JoeCanada76 · May 10, 2007, 04:31 PM

I was watching miami ink. There was this girl that came in and wanted an tattoo of an angel on her back. She also had a picture of her and her baby brother in her arms. Her brother at 15 years old committed suicide. She had her brothers ashes with her. Apparently it is a common practice to mix some of the ashes in the ink they use for the tattoo and that is what she did.

So now she will have him with her at all times.

Chippers, I am so sorry for your loss. It is hard to believe that a loved one is not here with you in the physical sense. I just want you to know that your mom is always with you. In your heart, within your spirit. We are all connected and there is nothing that can separate that.

I think Laura had an excellent idea about you planting a tree or plant as a mothers day gift. I know that you are surrounded by people who love you, including myself.

Chippers, As far as a flower. I am not sure what kind. I have one in mind but somebody already mentioned it. So my idea is that from what you know of me here. I want for you to decide what flower to plant. Let me know which one you chose to plant.

Please take care of yourself.

Joe

startover22 · May 10, 2007, 07:33 PM

You guys are making me cry... What are you trying to do to me? Chippers buy your mama a plant or tree that is a very fine idea.
J_9 good job on your final. I would be proud of myself if I were you...
CBW try not to kick anyone's A$$ for the door... your days will be brighter...
Joe, I will be looking forward to hearing some gross food jokes. Could you find one about cereal, that is what I eat a lot of and I can't seem to kick it.
Tomorrow I am not going to raise my voice at the kids, just seems like they can't hear me if I talk in a low voice, but I guess they can, I tried it today when I had to stick my boy in a time out, and it worked better than ever, I guess I am changing in a few great ways. The boys are down, dad and the "bigger" kids went on a beautigul walk to go get icecream.
I am wanting to smoke but I won't...
RECORDING: 36 hours and going strong...

Closing on the house tomorrow, 1 down, 999 to go. We can do it. Right? Hugs to all.
G'night

chippers · May 10, 2007, 09:38 PM

Originally Posted by Allheart

Oh hugs to you chippers. Just big hugs. Absoluley plant a little tree or something in memory of Mom. Just beautiful.

Love you honey!

Love you to angel

Start, I am proud of you. The more you talk about it, the better you feel. You'll be feeling you want to smoke (theyre called tics) its okay to think about it at the time. To ignore it is wrong. Think of what's making you want one, then think of how proud of your swelf you are for not smoking.
Joe, thank you and everyone else for your kind words. My mom had an apple tree in her back yard and a dog would tree in her front yard. I'll plant one or the other. There is no rule that says I can't plant 2 of the same thing. So tell me about the flower, or if you like, your wife's favorite flower. Whatever you want.
I didn't mean to go off the way I did, but after spending the day seeing mother's day gifts it hit me. I'm normally a strong person and can handle it. After making sure Dad and my boys were okay, I couldn't escape the denial anymore.
I have a small remembrance of her ashes in a keepsake. Plus dad gave me a few things that belonged to her. When I'm ready I'll look at them.
And Syn, I know you're right, She knew I loved her. Mom never said it much but like my dad, mom showed her love in her actions. Like making our meals, laundry, doctors visits. Not taking it personally when teen age angst peaked.
She loved her grandchildren. Thought it was her divine right to do as she pleased with them.(that always got her into trouble with me and my brother) after a while we just gave up.
She was tough on me because she didn't want me to be weak and dependent on a man.I had to earn my way and I did.
So enough of the water works. I can't have swollen bleary eyes when I see Springfield on Sunday.
Yes Allheart, it would be awesome to see J-9 as it would be awesome to see all of you as well.
You're great frineds and I love you guys very much.

JoeCanada76 · May 10, 2007, 10:34 PM

Goodmorning everybody. Up real early again. When will I learn. Lol :rolleyes:

I guess I should go to sleep because need to get up in a couple of hours for work. :o

At least today is Friday, at least I hope it is.

Starters - I will do my best to find some cereal jokes lol.

Chippers - You know how I feel.

No more water works, the only thing though. I have been missing springfield for so long because I chose to watch extreme home make over. They are on at the same time. :eek:

It always figures. Two great shows that are on at the same time. Have to pick and chose.

I just noticed, a few more posts and my total will be 3,000. Wow, where did all the posts go? Lol

Have a good day and great weekend everybody.

curlybenswife · May 11, 2007, 12:53 AM

Woo hoo go joe go joe 3000 how cool is that :)

Good morning Lady's I'm happy you know what the door guys came at 8.30am and it was fixed by 20 to 9 now why couldn't they have done that on Tuesday ggggrrrr lol but its fixed now and no more worry about the cats opening it and running off.
Right I have my possitive head on today I have things to do I need to sort my dinning room before I have to fill it with boxes with all the stuff from the kitchen lots of love and hugs to you all xxxxxxx

JoeCanada76 · May 11, 2007, 02:19 AM

Hopefully I will get past that milestone today. Who knows lol

Glad they fixed your door quickly and properly Laura.

Everybody have a great day. Love you all here.