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hjpan · Jun 4, 2008, 07:44 PM

Originally Posted by starlite1

Oh Man HJ! I was actually thinking of the same thing myself earlier today. A scenario of my ex coming back/taking me back ...... I think all of us are having a tough go of it today...:(

Yep D:

classicrocker · Jun 4, 2008, 10:37 PM

Yea that makes sense, what's more atractive to women that bad boy or that confident independent man? Id like to here some more takes on this from women, where are you at tonight?? Not saying you guys don't have great points of views on this

hjpan · Jun 4, 2008, 10:52 PM

Originally Posted by classicrocker

yea that makes sense, whats more atractive to women that bad boy or that confident independent man?? id like to here some more takes on this from women, where are you at tonight??? not saying you guys dont have great points of views on this

Confident independent man.. lol

NorthernNiceGuy · Jun 4, 2008, 11:13 PM

Most "bad boys" are confident. So I think in the beginning they fall for this confidence and as time goes they realize whether the have a confident nice guy, or a bad guy. But by that time the woman's feelings are already there, and they seem to put up with it.

I totally winged that but it seemed to make sense...

What the hell are we even doing trying to figure women out... Its like a blind man trying to figure out a Rubiks Cube.

hjpan · Jun 4, 2008, 11:34 PM

Originally Posted by NorthernNiceGuy

Most "bad boys" are confident. So I think in the beginning they fall for this confidence and as time goes they realize whether or not the have a confident nice guy, or a bad guy. But by that time the womans feelings are already there, and they seem to put up with it.

I totally winged that but it seemed to make sense....

What the hell are we even doing trying to figure women out... Its like a blind man trying to figure out a Rubiks Cube.

Yep~

classicrocker · Jun 4, 2008, 11:49 PM

Haha, nice point northern

hjpan · Jun 4, 2008, 11:53 PM

I got to admit... girls are really indecisive =/

Sikativ · Jun 5, 2008, 05:24 AM

No contact is over.
My thread:
https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...ml#post1077145

Its funny because she sent me an email and its just back to silent treatment so far after that. Hah.

-Sik

damaged · Jun 5, 2008, 08:22 AM

I agree with BigBird... Is not like we go fter the "bad boy".. We go after the one that shows confidence, and the one we need to chase after a little.. The one that keeps us interested.. Then we find out he's an A****, but we're in it too deep.. l0l...

& northernNiceGuy is right: Stop trying to figure us out... We're too complicated! ;)

jolienoire · Jun 5, 2008, 09:59 AM

Well we as woman need to love a bad guy once in our lifetime in order to appreciaten a good one.

dollarman · Jun 5, 2008, 10:30 AM

Day 7... still thinking of ways to 'get my ex back', but I'm not acting on them. How's everyone else doing?

starlite1 · Jun 5, 2008, 10:33 AM

Hi Dollarman,

I am a mess... I am thinking of ways to do the same.

NorthernNiceGuy · Jun 5, 2008, 10:36 AM

Originally Posted by dollarman

Day 7...still thinking of ways to 'get my ex back', but I'm not acting on them. How's everyone else doing?

Crappy day for everyone... I feel pretty cruddy. She's in town and its made me pretty depressed. For some stupid reason I am thinking of calling her to hang out.

dollarman · Jun 5, 2008, 10:37 AM

Ahhhhhh! I hate to hear that! Smile smile smile smile! You are the one worthy of pursuit not him.

dollarman · Jun 5, 2008, 10:38 AM

NNG,
Do you think you would take her back?

starlite1 · Jun 5, 2008, 10:43 AM

Originally Posted by dollarman

Ahhhhhh! I hate to hear that! Smile smile smile smile! You are the one worthy of pursuit not him.

Thanks Dollar, I wish he would..

starlite1 · Jun 5, 2008, 10:47 AM

Originally Posted by NorthernNiceGuy

Crappy day for everyone... I feel pretty cruddy. Shes in town and its made me pretty depressed. For some stupid reason I am thinking of calling her to hang out.

Hi NNG,

That is not stupid at all. You are missing her, totally understandable. If you did call her and she wanted to hang out with you, what would your ideal outcome be (for you)?

NorthernNiceGuy · Jun 5, 2008, 10:52 AM

Originally Posted by dollarman

NNG,
Do you think you would take her back?

True dollarman,

Simple question like that and it makes you think about why you don't want her. Sure it might be good for a day, but I could never be happy with someone who has dragged me through what she did.

Haha, the heart makes you think so illogically about these things. I hate it!

ajhastings88 · Jun 5, 2008, 10:54 AM

Hang in there guys, I am on day? I really don't remember, but you guys hang in there. She called a couple of times, but I didn't answer. Her birthday is tomorrow, and I am felling like crap. We are in this together to better ourselves. Team One love.

NorthernNiceGuy · Jun 5, 2008, 10:59 AM

Originally Posted by starlite1

Hi NNG,

That is not stupid at all. You are missing her, totally understandable. If you did call her and she wanted to hang out with you, what would your ideal outcome be (for you)?

I don't even know what it would be. That's the thing, its just me missing her. Its like I am mourning the death of someone. She was my whole life for 4 years. For some weird reason in my mind I want her to be reminded of the guy I am, and just regret what she did to me and regret not being with me. It's a stupid thought but one that comes to me often. Again illogical.