I don't know

one_life · Nov 19, 2005, 12:22 AM

Update:
Today at work, at the end of our shift (midnight), my ex asked me if I was waiting for her. Before I could answer, she tells me that she was staying late(keep in mind the work place closes at midnight) and then changed it to how she was inivited somewhere(she was acting all funny and nervous). I also happened to notice that the guy she is sneeking around with was pacing around, waiting to drop her home I bet.
Well I just looked at her and said to her to stop lying and tell the truth for once in her life (her face dropped), then I turned around and walked out the door.

You should have seen her face, it was a classic. I must have ethier hurt her or pissed her off. My bet is on the latter, because she has no heart to get hurt.

What do you people think?

Wildcat21 · Nov 19, 2005, 01:38 PM

Good. Now leave her alone and forget about her. Don't return he e-mails. Be nice and short with her if she comes up to you.

She for the longest time worked on your jealousies. She was toying with you.

Chery · Nov 19, 2005, 01:47 PM

It's about time, you were waiting for a chance to be abrupt to her, now you had it. So go on with your life and stop thinking about her or the other guy. He's just a tool to her also, so don't be mean to him because of what she's doing. Be professional and get back to what you are being paid to do, your job. From now on also keep your personal life separate from professional life, it's better.

good job, now back to work.

Katiy · Nov 19, 2005, 04:36 PM

Now, just be able to hear the truth from her, and don't react to it. What a wonderful man you are. You empower women.

Chery · Nov 19, 2005, 04:50 PM

Originally Posted by Katiy

Now, just be able to hear the truth from her, and don't react to it. What a wonderful man you are. You empower women.

One_life - listening to her now would only open up old wounds, leave it be and keep your pride! If you are into S & M, I'll give you all the lashes with a wet noodle you want.

Just kidding dear, but wash her out of your hair now, you're doing good.

one_life · Nov 19, 2005, 05:53 PM

Originally Posted by Chery

One_life - listening to her now would only open up old wounds, leave it be and keep your pride! If you are into S & M, I'll give you all the lashes with a wet noodle you want.

Just kidding dear, but wash her out of your hair now, you're doing good.

So the thing to do here, is to ignore her. Got you. I'll just do that. For some reason I feel better. It is like I've taken back all the power. Man the look on her face, it was like someone slaped her on the face. I know she is fuming mad about it. Speaking from past experience she can't handle being told the truth. No body likes being called a liar, especially if you are a liar.

As for the S&M thing, I could try it out for you. LOL

Chery · Nov 19, 2005, 06:11 PM

Originally Posted by one_life

So the thing to do here, is to ignore her. Got you. I'll just do that. For some reason I feel better. It is like I've taken back all the power. Man the look on her face, it was like someone slaped her on the face. I know she is fuming mad about it. Speaking from past exprience she can't handle being told the truth. No body likes being called a liar, especialy if you are a liar.

As for the S&M thing, I could try it out for you. LOL

You got it, babe!

Wildcat21 · Nov 19, 2005, 11:30 PM

Don't take that as a victory. It's WAY too late Just treat her as a colleague/professional. DO NOT anser any more of her persoanl e-mails - questions.

Again - find some one OUTSIDE of work. You will most likely end up with more crap in the long run.

Start being a man - meet women. Be a man - no more Wuss behavior. You're a busy guy.

Katiy · Nov 20, 2005, 06:12 AM

Originally Posted by Chery

You got it, babe!

Looks like you found another **!

one_life · Nov 20, 2005, 09:37 AM

Originally Posted by Wildcat21

Don't take that as a victory. It's WAY too late Just treat her as a colleague/professional. DO NOT anser any more of her persoanl e-mails - questions.

Again - find some one OUTSIDE of work. You will most likely end up with more crap in the long run.

Start being a man - meet women. Be a man - no more Wuss behavior. You're a busy guy.

Wildcat do me a favour. Instead of posting blindly. Read my previous posts. Do just go these websites and copy and paste them to here? None of it sounds like your own or makes sense to the context. For instance what e-mail exchange are you babbling about. We haven't exchange e-mails since the breakup.

You sound like a cave man. BE MAN- NO WUSS- ME HUNGRY

I beg you to read, then post according the context.

Please do not start on how you deal only in tough love.