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    #181

    Jun 4, 2008, 10:27 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by zooropa1985
    well my ex just mailed me to let me know how better her life is without me in it and how shes become a happier person.
    She's being petty, and looking for a response.

    Do you honestly think that if she was that much happier, she would care to tell you about it? What does she possibly have to gain by telling you about it? The only reason she would tell you is that she wants a response out of you - and the only reason she would want a response out of you is if she was lying, or trying to convince herself.

    Ignore it :)
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    #182

    Jun 4, 2008, 10:30 AM
    Cheers guys, ill just ignore it. Have to admit it felt like a kick in the nuts but ill be fine, over the worst of it now anyway.
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    #183

    Jun 4, 2008, 10:39 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by zooropa1985
    cheers guys, ill just ignore it. have to admit it felt like a kick in the nuts but ill be fine, over the worst of it now anyways.

    It should feel like more of a nice massage. She's full of it and she's missing you. She's now realized what she had, your winning the emotional game against a woman who knows how emotions work better then you. I'd say it's not a kick in the balls but rather a notch in you cap that you are the one in charge here.
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    #184

    Jun 4, 2008, 10:42 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by chuff
    It should feel like more of a nice massage. She's full of it and she's missing you. She's now realized what she had, your winning the emotional game against a woman who knows how emotions work better then you. I'd say it's not a kick in the balls but rather a notch in you cap that you are the one in charge here.
    It's funny when you stop and think about why she would be doing this -- and how desperate an attempt it seems even though what she wants is the exact opposite of what she is implying. Welcome to the world of women.
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    #185

    Jun 4, 2008, 10:42 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by chuff
    It should feel like more of a nice massage. She's full of it and she's missing you. She's now realized what she had, your winning the emotional game against a woman who knows how emotions work better then you. I'd say it's not a kick in the balls but rather a notch in you cap that you are the one in charge here.

    chuff if you were a woman id marry you and be your slave :)
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    #186

    Jun 4, 2008, 10:43 AM
    Yea, I agree with everyone. My ex does the same thing(we are friends now, but it's weird because she says she wants to try again but is scared I'll go back to how I was) and she is constantly telling me that she's happy with him, he treats her nice, he doesn't care that we talk, blah blah.. I just want to text her back and be like "who you trying to convince" but I don't.

    Just take the e-mail with a grain of sand
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    #187

    Jun 4, 2008, 10:47 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by zooropa1985
    chuff if you were a woman id marry you and be your slave :)
    Interestingly enough I will not be having the operation to become a woman.

    However, if there are women out there who would like to become my slave (and I promise to be a great master) drop my a line.
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    #188

    Jun 4, 2008, 10:52 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by Romefalls19
    "who you trying to convince"

    Just take the e-mail with a grain of sand
    I agree Rome,

    She wants to get back with you, but is happy with him? No way... you deserve sooo much better :)
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    #189

    Jun 4, 2008, 11:47 AM
    Ignore them... They just want you back because you guys are So0o0o0o IRRESISTIBLE ;)

    Chuck I'd be your slave :D
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    #190

    Jun 4, 2008, 11:52 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by damaged
    Ignore them....They just want you back bc u guys are So0o0o0o IRRESISTIBLE ;)

    Chuck i'd be ur slave :D
    First of all slave, get my name right. There will be much punishment for that.
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    #191

    Jun 4, 2008, 12:01 PM
    Ooh I'm sooo sorry master chuff!
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    #192

    Jun 4, 2008, 12:03 PM
    Yes... Yes... Yes, Master Chuff. In fact I believe the rest of you should also refer to me in such a fashion. But Miss D, you still must pay the price for you slander. As you know though, I'm a pretty decent guy, so I'll let you choose the punishment... however, I will choose the severity.
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    #193

    Jun 4, 2008, 12:12 PM
    Going through day 6... I may be hitting a rough patch... but I'm holding on to perseverance over everything. Yesterday was kind of tough too... how's everyone else?
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    #194

    Jun 4, 2008, 12:18 PM
    Feeling pretty good actually, have my ups and downs but that's life.

    Just keep moving forward, that's all any of us can do.
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    #195

    Jun 4, 2008, 12:19 PM
    Hey dollarman...
    Good to hear your standing strong!. :)
    Me -----> so far so good... Have my moments, but I'm hanging on!
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    #196

    Jun 4, 2008, 12:21 PM
    Here I've just realised that this thread is longer than emo punks infamous one last year, some of you newer members might not have seen it but it reached a 1000 posts.

    chuff you must remember that epic?
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    #197

    Jun 4, 2008, 12:27 PM
    Hi Zoo,

    Is emo punks still on? I never saw that post.
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    #198

    Jun 4, 2008, 12:28 PM
    Hi Dollarman!

    Good for you! Excellent!

    Me, well, I'm still in an up and down state. I still haven't contacted him though!
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    #199

    Jun 4, 2008, 12:28 PM
    He's still on but I think the post has been taking down, was on his profile and it doesn't seem to be there
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    #200

    Jun 4, 2008, 12:29 PM
    Hi Master Chuff ;)

    I couldn't resist :)

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