[topladyj]

Question do you girls think that most girls do check up on there men, weather it be the phone, the wallet, under the bed, or the pockets. A high majority of woman I have spoken with did agree to this.

[Synnen]

I never check on my husband.

I don't even know the password to his computer.

It's never actually occurred to me to do so.

[startover22]

question do you girls think that most girls do check up on there men, weather it be the phone, the wallet, under the bed, or the pockets. A high majority of woman I have spoken with did agree to this.

I do not think we should check up on our men. There should not be a need to do so and if there is then there is something wrong.;)

[ScottGem]

First its not a good idea to piggyback your question on someone else's. This can lead to confusion. You should start a new thread. So I've moved your question to its own thread. Espcially since your question is one of a more serious nature then the thread you posted to.

To answer your question, the answer is a resounding NO! A relationship should be based on trust. When trust goes out of a relationship, then that signals the end of it. And it goes both ways. Snooping is not the answer open communication is.