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    Jan 6, 2008, 07:20 PM
    Getting divorced and dating
    Hi! This is my first time to this site and have had a horrible day. (YEAR) I am currently separated and have been dating someone. Well, he broke up with me today. WE have had this amazing relationship. He tells me that he has never felt this away about anyone and one day wants to marry me.
    Well, I do have 2 small children which of course he knows about. Well, he tells me that the reason he is breaking up with me is because: 1) I am not getting divorced fast enough. He thinks that I am dragging my feet and 2)he is afraid to get close to my children because his last relationship had children involved. He doesn't want to ever hurt my children or himself if something happens to us.

    I am absoltely devastated and was shocked with this break up. The one person I could trust and count on has left me.
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    Jan 6, 2008, 07:42 PM
    Sorry but he is giving excuses not telling you the truth, he does not want to hurt the kids, ( pure bull excuse)
    Not getting divorced fast enough ( OK, you should not have really dated till you were divorced) but he did not have an issue dating you while you were not divorced yet, so if he really loved you, that would not be the issue either.

    There has to be more to why, don't know, maybe it does not matter, but it sounds like he was being nice and trying to give you nice reasons and things you can'[t control as the reasons
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    Jan 6, 2008, 09:25 PM
    If you want to know the truth, what are you doing in a relationship, when your still married? Please don't say your one of those people who needs someone to make them happy? How about some more info, before I jump to conclusions here.
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    Mar 4, 2008, 07:31 AM
    Im 27. Go back to your husband, if anything he still loves you. I am separated from my Fiancé and I'm hoping that she comes back to me, and I would be devistated to hear her talk like that about someone else besides me. Please try and work it out for your family.
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    Mar 4, 2008, 08:34 AM
    How long were you dating? If you are getting divorced it can take time. You can still date, just because you jave a bit of paper saying you are still married does not mean it is still so in life if you've been split for ages.
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