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Awhile back, my best friends mentioned to the guy I liked that I liked him. His response was weird: “So I should be on the lookout?” I gave up. He did show some signs of interest in me after that but I assumed he was just trying to read me or just being friendly since we were friends just not close friends. There were 2 incidents were he touched me on the shoulders which is weird because I don't see him do that to other girls and before he never touched me.

One night we got a bit tipsy though Im not sure how drunk he was, he does this thing where he has 2 drinks and “pretends.” anyway we flirted a lot and others there thought he liked me. Our friends there encouraged it. I almost told him I liked him last year. I went to his room and said “Lets talk” but just chickened out and left. He went “what happened” and left me 2 voicemails, one saying “Hope you got back to your room OK Ill see you tomorrow or IM you” and he did right away the next morning, his IM was there when I woke up. He was sober while doing this and he didn't tell his friends he did this.

But people there that night meddled without asking me and told him I’ve liked him since last year. His close friend who was there must have told everyone this because no one else knew this for sure. This friend told me he said he doesn't have feelings for me and that everyone else made it worse, but he’d like to be friends. I guess I should mention this guy has never had a girlfriend or kissed a girl. And I won't lie, he does have gay tendencies but he firmly denies being gay. Im still pretty mad about this whole situation and I don’t talk to him or his friends hardly at all. This guy still says hi to me all the time on passing and a few times when he did it while I was walking with other people I didn't say it outloud back since he wasn't saying it directly to me. He asked a mutual friend why he didn't get a response back and later asked him if I was acting weird around him too. I assume he's worried he hurt my feelings but he also said my best friends never told him I liked him earlier though he def. understood what she said. Why did he do that?

He's never had a girlfriend or kissed a girl. I should mention he does have some gay tendencies but firmly denies being gay, I guess its still possible though.