[wolloh2000]

I agree with ernest carr's comment... Some choose their partners not by gender but personality or body type, Some women that preferred men but enjoyed the softness of a woman's body and touch, Also some that did not want to have sex with any person M or F but preferred to live with a male companion... I personally do not impose classifications simply because in my opinion inner beauty is what counts. If I had to choose between a man that was gorgeous on the outside and ugly on the inside and a woman who was eh, OK on the outside and beautiful on the inside... no contest, I would pick the woman. Im not a lesbian or bisexual, not broken and need fixing... just think that beauty is on the inside regardless of gender...

[Choux]

Not hardly! :) Our parts fit together so well.

However, men have to *learn* how to pleasure a woman by being an excellent companion in ways other than sexual so that she has warm feelings for him!

Today, it seems, from what I have observed, that sex is just a variation of male masturbation... pump pump pump... due to the influence of their masturbatory techniques and the influence of porn movies. If a man doesn't have a good female teacher, he will never learn how to have sex with a woman. Those figures from Dr. Phil's website indicate that many women are not orgasmic, therefore they don't understand their sexuality... and can't teach man.

[lacuran8626]

I think the supposition that all women have an attraction to other women is way off base. Speaking for myself, the idea of intimacy with other women is nauseating. I don't have any moral objection to people being homosexual, either men or women, and have had friends who are gay or lesbian and am totally comfortable around them. However, I have absolutely no attraction sexually to other women. When I see attractive women, I am kind of shopping for ideas for myself in terms of what I might like to wear, or how I might like to do my hair, etc. Even the most beautiful woman though, I have not any inkling of desire to touch her at all.

I think that part of what makes procreation work is that the majority of people find the idea of sex witih a same-sex partner absolutely revolting and terribly uncomfortable to even think about. Some people do not feel that way and are drawn to same sex partners, and some people are unclear in what they feel but there are a lot of us out there who are completely immersed on every level in being heterosexual. For me, I guess I can understand on an emotional level how people can be attracted in the whole spectrum of sexual preference to other people, and I'm not grossed out by their relationships with each other. It's just where I view myself. Always with a strong, vibrant man. Even a weak-seeming man is just really unappealing to me. Funny but one of my best friends is a gay man, and he feels the same absolute revoltion in thinking about sex with a woman. He said that he just feels like it would be like being with his mother, and not at all natural for him. He's the other extreme, and doesn't have a bit of hetero in his psyche.