[noeymc]

I am 17 she is 19 she has a baby from another guy but I really like her and I do care about her baby I don't no how it will work out do you think it will work I have no problem with the fact the baby daddy is a total *** hole and a butt head and doesn't want me around the baby but how would you address this I want to make it work ( baby is 3 months old and they had her before we started dating he wasn't around for the brith I was their with her but he wants to see the baby only because I am around or that's how I see it)

[Fr_Chuck]

Well he can be around his child for the rest of his child life, so you have to understand that he will be messing with your relationshiop forever if he wants to some. He can visit his child, and will also be paying child support to the child. And perhaps the girl will have to be taking hm back to court form time to time.

So it all depends on how tough you are, and if you really care for this girl or not, If you really love her, nothing would stop you, but since you apperar to be having doubts,?

[George_1950]

You are getting in fast and deep. Have you finished school with a diploma? Do you have a job? Can you support three? Do you have health insurance and life insurance? Do you have a checking account? Have you filed a tax return? What does your mom think?

[talaniman]

I seriously doubt your ready for the family thing, and you have nothing to say about a father and his kids, so don't get into it. Slow down and think, before you jump into this thing so fast, and so deep. Stay out of their business as it really doesn't matter what you think about how they deal with the situation.

[s_cianci]

Understand that she and this man are always going to be linked together because of this child. He has every right to see his child. He cannot legally keep you away from the child without just cause. If it were me I think I'd find a woman without so much baggage. You're young and you haven't known each other that long. Is it really worth all this drama? I would think not.