[Asaahi]

So basically, there's a girl at the movie store. We went out on 2 dates. Both times she fed me (This was around end of October). But I scheduled it. On Nov. 2 she came over to my place, watched a movie, and we kissed for the first time and went a bit further (No Sex).

So anyway, a day later I asked her if she was free the following days but she seemed a bit distant. I remember her mentioning something about hating "clinginess" on our first date so I toned it down a bit. She still texts and sends little messages here and there though, and picture messages.

The thing is we never talk on the phone, the only way we communicate when not in person is text. It's F-ing annoying! Basically, her birthday is tomorrow which is going to force me to call and say Happy Birthday, but besides that I'm just going to wait for her to initiate a date or conversation.

Oh and I asked her out a couple other times past weeks. She said she had work and such.

Is she genuinely BUSY?

Basically my questions are, have I fallen into the friend zone?
Should I let her initiate things now?
What should I get for her Birthday?
Should I even call for her birthday which is today?
And lastly, how do I show her that I'm not clingy?

Thanks!

[nomatter]

So basically, there's a girl at the movie store. We went out on 2 dates. Both times she fed me (This was around end of October). But I scheduled it. On Nov. 2 she came over to my place, watched a movie, and we kissed for the first time and went a bit further (No Sex).

So anyways, a day later I asked her if she was free the following days but she seemed a bit distant. I remember her mentioning something about hating "clinginess" on our first date so I toned it down a bit. She still texts and sends little messages here and there though, and picture messages.

The thing is we never talk on the phone, the only way we communicate when not in person is text. It's F-ing annoying! Basically, her birthday is tomorrow which is gonna force me to call and say Happy Birthday, but besides that I'm just gonna wait for her to initiate a date or conversation.

Oh and I asked her out a couple other times past weeks. She said she had work and such.

Is she genuinely BUSY?!

Basically my questions are, have I fallen into the friend zone?
Should I let her initiate things now?
What should I get for her Bday?
Should I even call for her birthday which is today?
And lastly, how do I show her that I'm not clingy?

Thanks!

Well you must have heard "what goes around comes around" she'll come around.. what you can do to prove her that you are not so clingy is you can stop texting her so often. And no need to get her a birth day gift, no need to call her, just send a simple and cute sms to her cell phone as a wish on her her b'day. That's all. Well I can't say you have fallen into the friend zone, you have fallen into her avoid zone. It sounds more like she is kind of ignorin u (no offense OK dear).. so let her come around..

[N0help4u]

She may be 'avoiding' you because she doesn't want to get into anything too fast and too deep and wants to make sure you are not the clingy type first. Give it time and eventually you will know how she really feels

[dataguneed]

Maybe she is not interested anymore because you might be clingy in her eyes