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    CJDASH Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    #1

    Mar 10, 2013, 05:38 AM
    Asking her out
    Hi guys,
    I have a problem where I really like this girl but I don't want to ask her out just in case it ruins our friendship, What do I do?

    Do I just go for for it and if it ruins our friendship deal with it?
    Or wait until I can be sure it won't ruin our friendship?

    Thanks CJDASH.
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    Mar 10, 2013, 06:09 AM
    There is no way to know, it will not ruin your friendship, You have to risk friendship to move into something else
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    Mar 11, 2013, 01:12 AM
    From the question, we may know that you are not know her well. So... try to know her well. And then you can try to ask her out. Best wishes.
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    Mar 21, 2013, 10:01 AM
    Flirt with her first, see how she takes to it? Talk to her friends, see if she's into anyone? Girls talk about everything so she will find out you've been asking about her and she'll definitely know you're interested. Or ask her for help with a shopping trip or something, so it's not a definite date but you'll be alone and can judge how she feels about you?
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    Mar 21, 2013, 11:02 AM
    Any good relationship must have honesty, respect, caring, and a willingness to talk about anything. If she is already your friend, then ask her out. What are you waiting for?
    All she can say is "no, thank you", and you both keep on going. Go for it.

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