[petertom]

We split up after 1 month of her being pregnant over some really silly things. She has since changed her phone number and deleted her email account so I can't write her.

At this time she won't talk to me at all and it was all over me not showing her enough attention. Before this she was all about getting married and being a family and seemed extremely happy. Her being pregnant was her idea and came to me wanting a baby because she said she knew I was the one for her and God had showed her that.

It has now been a month and a half without any contact and doesn't even let me know about doctor's visits. Any positive advice would be very appreciated.

May I also add I'm pretty sure her family is trying to keep us apart somewhat. She is also a big time family person which is a bad thing if they are saying negative things about me and being in a relationship with me. I know she is the one for me and I hope everything can work out.

[Oliver2011]

You two are having a child. She cannot legally keep you from that child. Neither can her family. You will have financial responsibilities with this child as well.

However, if you want a relationship with this woman what have you done that will show her you are willing to correct the issue that caused the breakup? But think long and hard about that because by the way she reacted this might be a blessing in disguise (based on your side of the story only).

[petertom]

I've wrote letters,sent money for dr's co-pays, tried emailing her and her mom to just let her know I care and want to be there,but I haven't got any response at all. And when it comes to seeing my child develop at her appointments. Is there anything I can do so that I can be there if she's not letting me know when they are or anything?

[samcreed]

You have done all you can, except for getting a lawyer and see what he/she says. If you want to continue with this, be prepared to pay child support! Good luck.