[jellybeans1]

Lately I only have sex every few months so I tend to be very tight. Today I went a little rough and did not feel like I had ripped until I noticed the blood. After about two hours the bleeding has stopped completely and there is almost no pain. But when I examined myself in the mirror the area of my hymen does not look at all like it used to. And the skin where the vaginal opening is has a really deep but not a big rip. I do not know if I should go to the emergency room or if it is fine and that will be just a waste of time.

[joypulv]

First of all, having infrequent sex doesn't make you tight. And why not use lubricant to avoid cuts. I would sit in a warm tub once a day with some mild soap to keep out possible bacteria, keep an eye on it, and see a clinic if it gets sore and inflamed.

[jellybeans1]

First of all, having infrequent sex doesn't make you tight. And why not use lubricant to avoid cuts. I would sit in a warm tub once a day with some mild soap to keep out possible bacteria, keep an eye on it, and see a clinic if it gets sore and inflamed.

thank you. I did use lubricant though and I took those baths. But today I had chunks of flesh come out of me. I went to the Emergency and they did several tests on me. And got my results back from a pap test I had done 2 months ago. It is cervical cancer that caused me to rip so easily from the irritation it has caused.

[hheath541]

As awful as that is, it may have helped you catch it early enough to make treatment easier. I wish you luck, and hope you have family and friends willing and able to stand by you. Cancer treatment is a tough process, and you'll need the support system.