Originally Posted by
Wondergirl
I don't see any mood swings here. You certainly can't be even tempered 24/7. So you are feeling fine and things are going along well enough and he says something you don't like or happen to disagree with and then you raise your voice and disagree or call him on it, then you are having "mood swings"?
Do you have these "mood swings" at any other time or when dealing with others?
No, I don't to anyone else. Just with him and usually with people I am close with. You're right he expects me to be even tempered and if it has anything to do with communicating to him about what he did in a way that's strong he takes offense to it.
I don't know how else to be when I'm frustrated with him. I guess I'm not allowed to react. Jeezz...
I think he is the first guy I dated that is sensitive. I don't know how to be. I got used to unemotionally available men and non communicative or passive aggressive. Which he's now turning to because I ask him things. I don't understand when he says that he wants a break and I ask him are we seeing other people on this break? He says it's more complex than that which I don't understand. It's a yes or no, his answer is if we're not working out then yes, we should see other people. Sorry, this is turning into something not about me now. I just wanted to understand...
I appreciate your replies wondergirl