Ask Experts Questions for FREE Help !
Ask
    HikariSenryu's Avatar
    HikariSenryu Posts: 10, Reputation: 1
    New Member
    		  
    #1

    Nov 7, 2012, 03:05 PM
    Is my boyfriend trying to trap me?
    Me and my boyfriend have been going out for about eight months. We started to be intimate, but before we started to have intercourse he got up to get a condom. I saw him put it on. He kept slipping out when we started; I stopped him because it hurt and when I grabbed him I realized he wasn't wearing the condom anymore. I was so upset and he just said " I thought you knew I took it off." After that he said sorry and that he thought I wouldn't mind. After that I just went home and haven't spoken to him. Now I'm worried about the possibillity of getting pregnant. It's been three hours since I got home and my stomach has started to hurt a little bit. He didn't ejaculate and we didn't get far because he kept slipping, but I don't know. I've heard of precum causing pregnancy, but intercourse didn't go further than a few shallow thrusts. I'm going to go get a morning after pill tomorrow. I honestly can't believe it , I don't know what to do about the relationship now...
    Homegirl 50's Avatar
    Homegirl 50 Posts: 10,794, Reputation: 2604
    Dating & Teen Expert
    		  
    #2

    Nov 7, 2012, 04:40 PM
    How old are you two. Sounds like someone either didn't know what he was doing or he was trying to go against your wishes and have sex without a condom.
    I suggest you leave sex alone for a while and certainly with him.
    HikariSenryu's Avatar
    HikariSenryu Posts: 10, Reputation: 1
    New Member
    		  
    #3

    Nov 8, 2012, 10:07 AM
    I'm 21 years old. He sent me a message this morning and said he knew that he was wrong for that, but I was overreacting.
    Homegirl 50's Avatar
    Homegirl 50 Posts: 10,794, Reputation: 2604
    Dating & Teen Expert
    		  
    #4

    Nov 8, 2012, 12:03 PM
    You are not over reacting and he was wrong. At his age he ought to know better. Leave him alone. Does not sound like a person who is sorry or respectful.
Not your question? Ask your question View similar questions
 

Question Tools Search this Question
Search this Question:

Advanced Search


Check out some similar questions!

Old drum trap removed. New j trap will not fit same space. Idea? [ 3 Answers ]

Had leak at base of tub drain extension. Cracked at elbow which then had another straight piece to a 2nd elbow that went into bottom of an old drum trap(circa 1940's) . Drum trap then emptied out top into what appears to be a 1 1/2 or 2 inch pipe. That pipe angles over into main cast iron drain...

Difference between p-trap and s-trap because of any plmbing reasons [ 2 Answers ]

Ia there any plukmbing reason to use a P-trap than a S-trap?? If so, what is it?

Double trap OK? Rough in piping + tub trap [ 10 Answers ]

The way the 2" rough in went we ended up with a trap of sorts then a pipe to where the tub trap will be. Not completed yet. Just wondering if a tub trap and a trap made with the rough in piping will cause some sort of problem. The rough in trap was made off a 4x4x2 wye. Would that be adequate...

Replace P-trap with drum trap--good idea? [ 3 Answers ]

Hi, I have a large crack in a cast iron waste line. The line at that point serves just the kitchen sink and is vented to the roof. The first plumber I called wants to disconnect the P-trap, install a drum trap, drill through the cabinet and floor, and connect to the waste line down below the crack....

P-trap GAP - p-trap too low to meet sink drain extension [ 13 Answers ]

I just took an old crane drexel sink off the wall and replaced it for the time being ( I want to fix the older sink) with a cheap vanity/sink set. All that was easy enough, but now to my chagrin I can't finish the job. The p trap is too low, the extension pipe from the sink doesn't go all...

View more questions Search