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Littlebeast · May 21, 2012, 10:52 PM

I am a teenager and I have never seen or talked to my father before in my life. I don't know ANYTHING about him or where he is. So for all I know he could be In Spain!(I don't know)
My mom doesn't want anything to do with him so she doesn't help me at all. So does anyone have ideas for me that may help me find him or have a way to find out what he looks like at
Least?

sheranudeep · May 21, 2012, 11:08 PM

Originally Posted by Littlebeast

I am a teenager and I have never seen or talked to my father before in my life. I don't know ANYTHING about him or where he is. So for all I know he could be In Spain!(I don't know)
My mom doesn't want anything to do with him so she doesn't help me at all. So does anyone have ideas for me that may help me find him or have a way to find out what he looks like at
Least?

Your mother know the details but she doesn't like to see him . I don't think there is any way to find you real father . But If you are able to convince to your mother , that you just want to see your father and won't let the father know that your are actually his son/daughter , you might actually get something out of her .

Littlebeast · May 21, 2012, 11:17 PM

Sheranudeep: Ive told her for years that I want to find him and I want to know stuff about him or want a pic ( she burnt all of them she said) but she just blocks it away. But then my moms friend who we live with since I was 2 months said when I'm 18 ( few year away) that she will help me if my mom said OK and she did but then this past year my mom got married to a bum that I hate and moved out of her friends house the in October my mom made me stay away from her friend and I'm never aloud to see or talk to get again ( I don't know exactly why my mom says the friend ha done bad things but I think she is lying) anyway so now I have no helP and don't know what to do anymore

andrewjg · May 22, 2012, 02:22 AM

I know it sounds hard but legally, your best bet is to wait until you are 18 and wait for your mums friend to help. This sounds horrible but guilt trip them both to help maybe?

Andy

Littlebeast · May 22, 2012, 07:19 AM

Andy-- I'm not aloud to talk or see her friend ever again

andrewjg · May 22, 2012, 01:47 PM

This sounds like a catch 22 situation in which you are either going to end up wondering as to whom your father is or to put your mind at ease. Talk to your mums friend without her knowing bareing in mind you may lose your mother daughter relationship in which you have now.

Hope this helps

Andy

Littlebeast · May 22, 2012, 01:50 PM

Andy- thank u I will try that!:)