[punky666]

Ok so I have been out with my girlfriend for a week now, we have been sleeping together for just under a month. I am gay.

So I was out in a club sat night and a girl was stalking me, she was crazy! She was giving my friends abuse for just dancing with me as she was jealous and I didn't even know her. She just wouldn't take any of the hints, I even left her for about half a hour and she was still sat with my friends staring into space, she was very drunk! She kept trying it on with me even though I was saying no, my friends didn't want her hanging around and were worried for me as she was being very possessive over me.

I was very drunk (no excuse) and my friend offered to kiss me so she would get the point and leave! There was nothing in it her fiancé was sat next to her and he was fine with it, so we kissed and she put on her jacket and got up to leave. The kiss was for about 20seconds, it didn't mean anything atall and at the time I just wanted this girl to leave me alone so I could enjoy my night out with my friends.

But I am one of these totally honest people, I don't ever lie about anything so I am finding it hard not to tell my girlfriend, I feel guilty because I know she would not be happy with it, and if it was reversed I doubt I would be happy either.

BUT the only thing that is stopping me is that she will feel awkward if I hang out with my friends again, and my last ex didn't get on with my mates so I stopped seeing them so it's a massive relief to hang out with them again and she was only doing it to get this girl to leave me alone!

I guess I'm unsure of if I should tell her or not? We have only been together a week and we haven't seen each other face to face since we got together... we are seeing each other tomorrow. The kiss meant nothing atall so is it worth messing up the start of something? Or should I not say anything? Or get out of the relationship?

[Homegirl 50]

You have been dating a week, you don't really have a relationship aside from sex. Just tell her what happened you have witnesses to back it up. If she doesn't get it, that's her problem.