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Feb 27, 2007, 01:08 PM
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Will I wait for his marriage or give it up?
Whenever I need something to figure out, I pray. If I have decisions to make, I try to pray. But now that I am getting older, I still have problem on distinguishing answers to my prayer. I am confused. I want to get married soon and have my own family but my boyfriend of tow years seem to keep on delaying because of financial issues. Please help me, anyone of you outthere if this guy is the one I will have to marry and just keep on waiting with him OR I need to break up with him because he has no plans for me. Please help. Thanks in advance.
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Feb 28, 2007, 12:29 PM
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If your boyfriend keeps on delaying then it really sounds as if he isn't ready for marriage or simply doesn't want to get married. I would try and talk to him about how strongly you feel. Good luck
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Feb 28, 2007, 01:50 PM
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Thanks, faithl! :)
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Feb 28, 2007, 03:44 PM
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Originally Posted by shrewd26f
Whenever I need something to figure out, I pray. If i have decisions to make, I try to pray. But now that I am getting older, I still have problem on distinguishing answers to my prayer. I am confused. I want to get married soon and have my own family but my bf of tow years seem to keep on delaying because of financial issues. Please help me, anyone of you outthere if this guy is the one I will have to marry and just keep on waiting with him OR I need to break up with him because he has no plans for me. Please help. Thanks in advance.
God is all about timing, just keep praying and don't give up. If it's not meant to be then god will take you out your comfort zone. Meaning put you in situation where you have to move on.
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Feb 28, 2007, 04:02 PM
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Originally Posted by shrewd26f
Whenever I need something to figure out, I pray. If i have decisions to make, I try to pray. But now that I am getting older, I still have problem on distinguishing answers to my prayer. I am confused. I want to get married soon and have my own family but my bf of tow years seem to keep on delaying because of financial issues. Please help me, anyone of you outthere if this guy is the one I will have to marry and just keep on waiting with him OR I need to break up with him because he has no plans for me. Please help. Thanks in advance.
I he really have financial problems... and if this is really the only obstacle that stoping him from marrying you... then the solution is in your hands
1- you tell him that you re ready to marry him even if you don`t have any penny and that you help and accept each others with no limits
2- you leave him... cause you don`t accept him wiz no money
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Feb 28, 2007, 05:43 PM
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Thanks, mizmishelle and imadgera :)
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Mar 1, 2007, 06:24 PM
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Originally Posted by shrewd26f
Whenever I need something to figure out, I pray. If i have decisions to make, I try to pray. But now that I am getting older, I still have problem on distinguishing answers to my prayer. I am confused. I want to get married soon and have my own family but my bf of tow years seem to keep on delaying because of financial issues. Please help me, anyone of you outthere if this guy is the one I will have to marry and just keep on waiting with him OR I need to break up with him because he has no plans for me. Please help. Thanks in advance.
I prayed for years about my marriage, which was very troubled, went to a priest for guidance and told him the whole story, what he told me blew my mind, and actually at the time pissed me off, he said "maybe God did answer your prayers, but you didn't like the answer" Several years later I gave up hope, and with the churches blessing left and started a new life with my kids, 20 years later, I still don't regret my decision, just wish I could tell the priest, yep, you were right, I was in denial!:p
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