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    jeevan1988 Posts: 3, Reputation: 1
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    Aug 27, 2011, 10:38 PM
    Can a girl not be over her past BF and still hope to be with someone else?
    My ex of 5 years broke up with me 50 days ago.. now she's back with emotional big mails telling me how much she misses me.. she even sent me pics of a bonfire she made of burning her diary in which I had my name everywhere.. do you think that's psychological sickness..?. and in the middle of it she says she hopes to be together with her married boss someday.. but she doesn't know weather she loves him or not.. and that she is not in a relationship... I want to know.. if she's really still into me which she mentioned during our mails.. how can she hope to be with her manager.. and not love him... is she trying to play games.. with my mind?trying to make me jealous?. she keeps digging into who I'm with and who is the girl.. wether we slept together.. then when I tell her.. she makes a U turn that we shudn't be in contact its going to mess things for me again... is she possibly upset at the thought of me being with someone else? Does she really care? What's going on here...
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    Wondergirl Posts: 39,354, Reputation: 5431
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    Aug 27, 2011, 10:49 PM
    Do yourself a favor and go No Contact. Don't respond to her or initiate contact with her -- in person, phone, texting, IMs, etc.

    She has let go of you, but needs you to feed her ego. Don't do it.
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    gnpm11 Posts: 3, Reputation: 2
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    Aug 28, 2011, 11:14 PM
    She is obviously a very confused person, and the fact that she is talking about being with a married man is a big enough sign to stay away. The person above is right, she just needs to feed her ego. If she wanted to be with you, she wouldn't have ended it in the first place. Things will never be the same if you do chose to get back together with her. You are better off without someone with that negativity in your life. She is definitely playing games and you CANNOT let her continue to play them or feed into any. Cut all ties.
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    Sep 10, 2011, 08:02 AM
    Wow. She sounds kind of crazy. But if she is telling you she wants to be with you then turning around and saying she wants to be with someone else who is MARRIED, just think about it. She really does not care, she is just jealous. Move on and stay with the girl you are with right now. Don't go back
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