[bubs123]

My boyfriend and I were in a very serious relationship. Him and I took vacations together, never argued, truly loved each other, his mother and I even said it to each other, and even he brought up the idea about moving in together. One day out of no where... things started to get rocky and just plain hard. He was never emotionally there and resented me for some reason. He started to make up lies, only wanted to see me once a week, but also wanted to make things work until one day he texted me "I can't do it anymore". I was broken. A sadness I have never felt before. After that text... he never wanted to speak to me or even meet up with me to discuss things to my face. He avoided me at all costs and even told me "I would have no problem ignoring you in a room". I have moved on for the most part and am definitely pretty happy about my life. But there is this emptiness of why he won't talk to me and I all of a sudden became garbage to him. Everyone tells me to move on and forget about him... so how can I when I still don't understand what to do... or what I even did!

[commitment]

Ask him, a man can't be soooooooooo much in love with you and then suddenly nothing, then as soon as u get your anser you will feel more comfortable to move on,

[pal_g3]

Ask him that will help you to move on. He can't just walk away leaving everything behind. Bring in some mutual friend if he's not ready to talk to you.

[talaniman]

His feelings changed, and you got caught off guard. It will take time to get over the shock, and hurt, disappointment, an rejection.

You may never get answers from him, and you can only get closure by accepting he lost that loving feeling.

We have all been there, and know it sucks. We move on to heal, and do better.