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Jul 12, 2010, 07:02 AM
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 Originally Posted by redhed35
you dont have to feel bad when your standing up for yourself,you dont have to feel bad saying no,you can feel powerful and strong and confident.
your not a mean person,you give your time readily,so you wont go to far the other way and end up being a right cow,but what you can do is find the balance.
when you make a decison stick to it,if you really feel uncomforable with something,say so and stick to it,if there is a compromise,then go with that.
Thanks Red, I'll keep this in mind
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Jul 12, 2010, 07:03 AM
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 Originally Posted by albear
i get that feeling aswell emop if i dont think im being nice i feel like an arsehole, and then im overly appologetic :(
I'm glad I'm not the only one Bear
How are you?
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Jul 12, 2010, 07:03 AM
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Lol, totally disagree arseholes are horrible people
But you are right red, in the fact that you do have to be one once in a while otherwise people will take advantage.
My way of doing this is once every full moon I turn into a grizzely :D
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Jul 12, 2010, 07:04 AM
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 Originally Posted by xXxEmOxXxPrInCeSsxXx
Thanks Red, I'll keep this in mind
No problem it only took me a year in college to come up with that!
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Jul 12, 2010, 07:05 AM
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 Originally Posted by albear
lol, totally disagree arseholes are horrible people
but you are right red, in the fact that you do have to be one once in a while otherwise people will take advantage.
my way of doing this is once every full moon i turn into a grizzely :D
I just suck it up and so far I haven't snapped.
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Jul 12, 2010, 07:06 AM
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 Originally Posted by albear
lol, totally disagree arseholes are horrible people
but you are right red, in the fact that you do have to be one once in a while otherwise people will take advantage.
my way of doing this is once every full moon i turn into a grizzely :D
I'm pretty easy going and can take a lot of others people crap,but then someone comes along,pi$$es me off royally and they get the full whack...
Its quite liberating.
Like a big mental and emotional crap... and it feels good.
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Jul 12, 2010, 07:08 AM
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 Originally Posted by xXxEmOxXxPrInCeSsxXx
I'm glad I'm not the only one Bear
How are you?
I'm all right thanks, you?
I'm actually at work now, but shhh don't tell anyone I'm here
 Originally Posted by xXxEmOxXxPrInCeSsxXx
I just suck it up and so far I haven't snapped.
When I snap I turn the anger inwards :)
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Jul 12, 2010, 07:09 AM
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 Originally Posted by albear
im alright thanks, you?
im actually at work now, but shhh dont tell anyone im here
when i snap i turn the anger inwards :)
Eh, read back a few pages and you'll find out how I'm doing haha
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Jul 12, 2010, 07:09 AM
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 Originally Posted by redhed35
im pretty easy going and can take a lot of others people crap,but then someone comes along,pi$$es me off royally and they get the full whack...
its quite liberating.
like a big mental and emotional crap....and it feels good.
And when you walk out, you tell the next person in line to give it 5 minutes before they go in :D
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Jul 12, 2010, 07:10 AM
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 Originally Posted by albear
im alright thanks, you?
im actually at work now, but shhh dont tell anyone im here
when i snap i turn the anger inwards :)
Eh, read back a few posts and you'll find out how I'm doing haha
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Jul 12, 2010, 07:11 AM
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 Originally Posted by xXxEmOxXxPrInCeSsxXx
Eh, read back a few pages and you'll find out how I'm doing haha
Ah, oh well :o
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Jul 12, 2010, 07:11 AM
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 Originally Posted by albear
and when you walk out, you tell the next person in line to give it 5 minutes before they go in :D
Yep,the 5 minutes is for me to get a head start,the dead body behind me tends to cause a fuss.
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Jul 12, 2010, 07:12 AM
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 Originally Posted by albear
ah, oh well :o
Yep, life goes on
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Jul 12, 2010, 07:13 AM
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 Originally Posted by adam_89
I think they didn't mean to click disagree
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Jul 12, 2010, 07:14 AM
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It could be because of the new skin, but there isn't a way to tell and that's part of the problem
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Jul 12, 2010, 07:15 AM
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 Originally Posted by adam_89
not to worry,its just a glich in the matrix,Mr Smith is still ironing out the problems.
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Jul 12, 2010, 07:17 AM
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 Originally Posted by redhed35
not to worry,its just a glich in the matrix,Mr Smith is still ironing out the problems.
Can we tell him to turn up the heat? Maybe hit the steam button?
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Jul 12, 2010, 07:20 AM
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Maybe, I don't know about this new skin I guess. Is it better or something? It doesn't sound like it.
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Jul 12, 2010, 07:20 AM
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Noooooo its too hot as it is, even if it is raining, its so bloody humid :(
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