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Kitkat22 · Jun 8, 2010, 08:00 PM

Originally Posted by britt123

its hard to find work i have slept in the park and in my truck many nights

I'm glad you're back... First you need to talk with someone about helping you find a job. Go see your children and tell them you love them. I don't think she can't stop you from seeing them unless she has a court order.

The next thing talk to a friend or someone your close with there in your town. If your mom and dad are still living, maybe they will help you. All is not lost when you keep on trying.

britt123 · Jun 8, 2010, 08:00 PM

Thank you I am not complaining I probably deserve what comes to me

Wondergirl · Jun 8, 2010, 08:02 PM

Originally Posted by britt123

thank you i am not complaining i probably deserve what comes to me

Whether you deserve it, that kind of talk isn't helpful right now. We're in survival mode, so let's work on that.

britt123 · Jun 8, 2010, 08:05 PM

I wish I could be as positive and strong as all of you I just find it hard to see anything positive coming my way no offence but isn't it easy to be positive and strong when you are in a good place like most of you would you be in the same frame of mind if you were betrayed homeless or broken

Kitkat22 · Jun 8, 2010, 08:06 PM

Originally Posted by Wondergirl

Whether or not you deserve it, that kind of talk isn't helpful right now. We're in survival mode, so let's work on that.

Don't apologize... what we need to know is this, do you get to see your kids? Is there someone who will help you get back on your feet again?

britt123 · Jun 8, 2010, 08:08 PM

I have snuk some visits with them at school

britt123 · Jun 8, 2010, 08:09 PM

Getting a job I have to do myself I have no family mother and father are dead

Wondergirl · Jun 8, 2010, 08:09 PM

Originally Posted by britt123

would you be in the same frame of mind if you were betrayed homeless or broken

How about severely anemic, bleeding ulcers, confined to a wheelchair, and facing breast cancer? And your soulcat of 15 years had just died of congestive heart failure?

britt123 · Jun 8, 2010, 08:11 PM

Are you talking about yourself I am so sorry honestly what keeps you going

britt123 · Jun 8, 2010, 08:12 PM

And why

Kitkat22 · Jun 8, 2010, 08:12 PM

Originally Posted by britt123

i have snuk some visits with them at school

I'll bet they were happy to see you? Their Daddy... yes, a lot of people have been in your position and they, like you have wondered what is there to live for? In your case.. Those children and I think you must be pretty darn smart. What sort of work did you do?

britt123 · Jun 8, 2010, 08:13 PM

I installed security systems dvr systems card access systems and setup network security

Wondergirl · Jun 8, 2010, 08:14 PM

Originally Posted by britt123

are you talking about yourself i am so sorry honestly what keeps you going

I fought my way through it and am improving day by day. I'm picking up the pieces of my life bit by bit. This site kept me going. Oh, and forgot to tell you -- had lost my job along the way too, a job I loved with all my heart and had had for 25 years.

britt123 · Jun 8, 2010, 08:18 PM

Is it worth it honestly what joy do you get out of life

Kitkat22 · Jun 8, 2010, 08:20 PM

Originally Posted by Wondergirl

I fought my way through it and am improving day by day. I'm picking up the pieces of my life bit by bit. This site kept me going. Oh, and forgot to tell you -- had lost my job along the way too, a job I loved with all my heart and had had for 25 years.

Wondergirl is a blessing to everyone here. I like her because she tells it like it is and Britt, she won't steer you wrong. She helped me through a bad time a while back and I'll bet she didn't even know it. We've all been through things that made us feel hopeless.. but there is always someone who says the right thing and makes you know you are worth something. Thanks and keep on posting... Thank you WG...

Wondergirl · Jun 8, 2010, 08:23 PM

Originally Posted by britt123

is it worth it honestly what joy do you get out of life

My ulcers have healed, my hemoglobin level is now above normal, I had a lumpectomy and radiation (so am supposedly cancer-free now), I have my soulcat's ashes near me and have instructed my kids to cremate me someday with them, and I am going to begin volunteering at the library where I used to work. I have already returned to co-lead the writers' group I started there.

Along the way, I met many interesting people -- medical staff and other patients.

Inch by inch, step by step.

britt123 · Jun 8, 2010, 08:26 PM

Thank you makes me feel like a winer when I realize what you have gone through you are a very strong person I commend you

Kitkat22 · Jun 8, 2010, 08:28 PM

Originally Posted by Wondergirl

My ulcers have healed, my hemoglobin level is now above normal, I had a lumpectomy and radiation (so am supposedly cancer-free now), I have my soulcat's ashes near me and have instructed my kids to cremate me someday with them, and I am going to begin volunteering at the library where I used to work. I have already returned to co-lead the writers' group I started there.

Along the wy, I met many interesting people -- medical staff and other patients.

Inch by inch, step by step.

You inspire everyone WG. Britt.. You have a lot to live for... Your children...

britt123 · Jun 8, 2010, 08:32 PM

My children are the only thoughts that keep me hear I realize that

Wondergirl · Jun 8, 2010, 08:32 PM

Originally Posted by britt123

thank you makes me feel like a winer when i realize what you have gone through you are a very strong person i commend you

I'm not telling you because I want to brag, but want you to realize that even thought the tunnel is dark, someone else in the tunnel has a flashlight. Do you walk deeper into the tunnel, or do you stick close to the flashlight guy?