[Alty]

* steals the beer bottles from friend4u's truck, serves to Friend4u, alty, muddy ,blackvy, pinky, and everybody else*
Gool light folls, I guess ........hick........hick.........gottt oo ...hick.....leave........hick........hick.:):eek:: D:cool:

Serve beer! Not drink beer! ;)

Bad Sergie. Go to my room! ;)

[friend4u178]

Pinky, maybe you should start a thread about this. I know that there are lots of people that would be there to give you advice. A lot of people that won't come to this thread.

Psssst...

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/marria...ge-433549.html

[Alty]

Psssst..............

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/marria...ge-433549.html

Damnit!

I told you I'm not computer savvy! :(

My bad.

I'll check it out later, time to get the kids to bed. Sydney and I are reading Charlottes web. :)

Pinky, stick around. I'm glad you joined our little group.

Sergie, get her another beer! ;)

M, I'll catch you later babe. That was the beer talking. Not really. ;)

[Catsmine]

Thats good advice and makes sense. I never believed in divorce and believed in working on things till death do us part. But my marriage is controlling and physically and mentally abusive so how do i stay and work that out? Its killing me emotionally but i dont want to just leave because i love my husband. There are so many good things i love and like about him but then theres so much pain aswell.

Is his life insurance paid up? Self defense is becoming more and more common in domestic abuse cases.

You get silliness like this in the chat threads.

[friend4u178]

Thanks... sorry M... that was me just being an a**... won't do it again... (hehehe)

Hey no problem at all Blacky , we're all just fooling around in here anyway. And no your not an A** , you're a friend like all of us are here.

Take care buddy and we'll chat soon.

[pinkangelgirl]

Pinky, maybe you should start a thread about this. I know that there are lots of people that would be there to give you advice. A lot of people that won't come to this thread.

I will ask a few questions.

1. How long have you been married?
2. Does your husband hit you? You said that the marriage is physically abusive.
3. How is your marriage mentally abusive?

Are there any good parts in your marriage? You say that you love him. What do you love about him?

If it's physically abusive then I'd leave, but that's me.

If you can salvage any part of your marriage, if you can both work together or agree to counseling, then I would say that you at least owe it to yourself to try.

Love isn't always easy. Marriage isn't either.

We're here if you need to talk. If you start a thread about this then post the link here, I know that most of us will be there to give you support and provide advice. :)

Thanks again for your advice altenweg. We have been married 3months only but together 3yrs. We have had a lot of problems and some things have gotten a lot better. However when the fights get bad he can become physically abusive and hit me, push and try to strangle me. This doesn't happen often but it does happen enough to make me feel scared and like I have no control. Its mentally abusive because he wants to control my life and now I have such low self-esteem and that I can't do things for myself. Don't get me wrong, there are many good things about him, he is loving and caring and tries to take care of me in different ways. I know that I'm not perfect either, I know he gets angry with the way I want to be independent and often I want to leave because I feel so controlled and I miss having a life outside of this relationship. That's why I am confused about whether I should stay or go. Btw I have started a thread before and most pple said to go to counseling which is what I've arranged to do so il see what happens.

[magprob]

Since singer Susan Boyle (who professes being a virgin) has been on TV, there's been a marked drop in suicide bombings . Apparently many of the terrorists didn't realize what a virgin looked like.

[albear]

That's an old one mag, your losing your touch, for shame.

Good to see the spam can again though

[Unknown008]

Hey magprob!

Welcome to the lounge Pinky! :)

Sorry Adam, I was already in bed yesterday when you posted :o

[Cat1864]

Hi, Unky and Bear. :)

I hope you both have had good days. :)

[Unknown008]

Hey Cat! :)

I'm fine, tired, but fine and I have some time alone in the house. Both mum and little sis are at the conservatory, learning guitar...

I don't think Bear is here yet... he was here hum... 4 hours ago. Later perhaps!

And how are you? :)

[J_9]

Ughhh

https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/teens/...-a-437420.html

[Unknown008]

Well, I guess it's only curiosity from that OP... or (s)he is watching things (s)he shouldn't and the images are sticking in his/her mind.

[J_9]

Actually I was Ughhhing at the first response.

[Unknown008]

Oh, sorry :o

[Cat1864]

Actually I was Ughhhing at the first response.

I can see why. The thought of age appropriate answers comes to mind as I hit my head on the desk. (ouch)

[J_9]

(ouch)

Here's a Tylenol. :p

[Cat1864]

Hey Cat! :)

I'm fine, tired, but fine and I have some time alone in the house. Both mum and lil sis are at the conservatory, learning guitar...

I don't think Bear is here yet... he was here hum... 4 hours ago. Later perhaps!

And how are you? :)

I am glad you are getting some alone time. I hope they are enjoying their lessons. :)

I put in the Hi to Bear so I don't miss him later. :)


Morning, J. :)

[Cat1864]

Here's a Tylenol. :p

Thanks.

[J_9]

If that doesn't work, let me know. I have stronger stuff, and I think you'll need it after the effects of reading that VERY long post with NO paragraphs kicks in. LOL