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marrrti · Sep 17, 2009, 10:35 PM

Hey, I'm a 17 year old girl, and I've been in love with a friend of mine for some time.
We aren't bestfriends just friends, but still I like him a lot. I'm not a flirt at all, and it sucks!
People tell me to take som action, that guys like that, but I don't know how?
I know he doesn't like me that way, but I want to seem more interesting to him!
I want him to look at me like I look at him, help me out? Love marrrti:confused:

none12345 · Sep 17, 2009, 10:47 PM

Tell him how you feel! Ask if he feels the same way. If not, say hope this doesn't ruin our friendship, if so, go from there.

I wish · Sep 18, 2009, 07:12 AM

I wouldn't use the word "love" so quickly. You're not even a couple yet.

Why don't you tell him that you're attracted to him and see how he reacts? How are you so sure that he doesn't feel the same way? You won't know until you find out.

At least by telling him how you feel, you won't have to keep guessing. If he feels the same way, then great! If he doesn't, then at least the tension is out and you can focus on being just regular friends.