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madb · Aug 11, 2009, 01:25 PM

Thanks for all the responses guys!

I appreciate all the advice, and you're all right. Move on now that I'm happy because if I go back to her then this will lead me back to square one. When school starts on Monday I'll be nice like the type of person I am, but treat her like we never dated.

paxe · Aug 11, 2009, 01:32 PM

Well there we go, that wasn't so hard lol. You'll see that life is much better without our exes.

sully123 · Aug 11, 2009, 02:48 PM

Respect her wishes right now. She wants her space and her own time. Your both young yet and that is only fair to both of you. Your emotions are flying right now and your thinking all kinds of things. Stay focused on you, as hard as it is. If it's meant to be it will happen someday, if not, there is nothing you can do to change things. The more you push and bother her and talk, they just go the other way. Work on you.

N0help4u · Aug 11, 2009, 02:51 PM

He said he moved on.

Arzy99 · Aug 11, 2009, 04:29 PM

Dude... the best thing you can do is focus on yourself!
Always look to improve who you are.. in any way possible, whether it be physically, socially, academically etc..
You sound like a cool guy.. and you know the score - this chick is not meant for you, she's bad news.. focus on yourself, forget about her.. continue NC.
Your life is WAY more important than hers... you're going to look back in 5 years and be glad that u spent time improving yourself during your time of heartache.. it'll make u a stronger and more complete person... I went to Africa to help underprivileged kids.. helped me immensely with my breakup... if I can do it, so can u!
Good Luck!

jlove09 · Aug 12, 2009, 11:52 PM

Originally Posted by madb

Thanks for all the responses guys!

I appreciate all the advice, and you're all right. Move on now that I'm happy because if I go back to her then this will lead me back to square one. When school starts on monday I'll be nice like the type of person I am, but treat her like we never dated.

Don't try nor move on. Just keep it casual :) Jus like you were in your kid days

madb · Aug 17, 2009, 09:12 PM

Classes start tomorrow... this is going to suck

paxe · Aug 17, 2009, 09:18 PM

Yep, and with that lots of parties and girls lol... look at the positive side.

madb · Aug 18, 2009, 06:46 PM

I saw her today it was not good. She came into class and didn't see me and sat a couple rows in front of me. When the professor called my name she said "Hey bran I didnt see you...heeey" then I just looked at her and said hi.

After class we talked for a bit and she asked about my new streetbike and then talked about how she is much happier single and happy she broke up with me when she did so she could have summer with her friends. Then said she likes being single, doesn't want a boyfriend blah blah blah. She seems like a whole new person, acts and looks different.

BlackVY · Aug 18, 2009, 07:55 PM

Blah... just let it go man... she is pushing your buttons...

She knows talking to you about "how good it is to be single" and "leaving you was the best thing" is all stuff she is saying to piss you off. Such a low down and despicable thing to do if you asked me.

Don't pay attention to her at all. Let her "enjoy" her single life and her friends. You move along with your life and enjoy yourself too. Don't listen to her poison as its not helping you, but she feels good seeing the pain in your eyes when she tells you this stuff...

madb · Aug 18, 2009, 09:23 PM

Thanks blackVY, that's a real good point. On another note the day was pretty good, found some nice new ladies in my classes that I can meet :)

BlackVY · Aug 18, 2009, 09:27 PM

Awesomeness... and with that bike, shouldn't be hard... Ladies love a guy with a hot bike... :)

What bike is it anyway?

paxe · Aug 18, 2009, 09:30 PM

As I said, uni is a great place to meet women, except if you're an electrical engineer guy... like me :(.

BlackVY · Aug 18, 2009, 09:33 PM

Haha... I know the feeling... When I was in uni, I did a Computer engineering degree... percentage of women in the classes was around the 3% mark... so sad...

But what me and the guys did was we skipped some classes and took some weird electives such as psychology and DAMN!! So many beautiful smart women in there.. it was awesome.. :)

madb · Aug 18, 2009, 10:16 PM

Haha I'm in a junior college for this semester and there are still tons of good looking girls. Just need to talk to them when I go back.

And black, it's a suzuki gsxr 1000. Good for picking up the ladies!

BlackVY · Aug 18, 2009, 11:08 PM

That's cool... good luck with that... and yeah, a great bike always helps...

My friend has the Honda CBR 1000 I think... crazy thing...

paxe · Aug 19, 2009, 07:30 AM

Originally Posted by BlackVY

Haha... I know the feeling... When I was in uni, I did a Computer engineering degree... percentage of women in the classes was around the 3% mark... so sad...

But what me and the guys did was we skipped some classes and took some weird electives such as psychology and DAMN!!! So many beautiful smart women in there.. it was awesome.. :)

I know it's sad, especially since there's more girl than guys in university... I guess going to parties and activities in the uni might be a good idea as I do have to finish my degree one day, I can't take just random classes lol.

Molecular · Aug 19, 2009, 08:05 AM

Originally Posted by paxe

As I said, uni is a great place to meet women, except if you're an electrical engineer guy... like me :(.

LOL straight on brother.
Third year of electrical engineering here. Out of 80 students there's like 2 women.

paxe · Aug 19, 2009, 09:21 AM

Originally Posted by Molecular

LOL straight on brother.
Third year of electrical engineering here. out of 80 students there's like 2 women.

4th year electrical engineer... I don't even count the guys, and the girls look like guys... talking about odds. One of my friends told me that once we leave uni it's going to be much harder to meet women... well I think he was wrong. Since we have such low odds we'll get much more chance later on. Beside I do hope to get into some parties this year since it has been a long time since I've been single...

madb · Aug 20, 2009, 10:13 PM

Yeah cbr's are badass!

2nd day of school and met 3 more girls... doing good, doing good! Hahaha