How can I get over him?
My name is Josh. I'm 18 years old, and I'm gay. I'm happy being gay and out to everyone, but it wasn't always like that. When I was 16, no one knew I was gay until I met a guy, Kyle. Kyle was 24, and friends with my older brother. Kyle and I started talking over the internet and texting, and I eventually told him I was gay. He helped me come out of the closet and be happy being me. Eventually, Kyle and I started developing feelings for each other. We decided to stop talking until I was 18.
14 months later, on my 18th birthday, Kyle gave me a call. I waited for him for 14 months because I fell completely in love with him. We dated, and it was magical. He was everything I wished for, and more. I was completely and utterly in love with this man. However, he decided to end it six months in because he was having problems. He said he felt smothered by me, and isn't completely comfortable being in a relationship right now. We broke up, and we continued to fight for a few months.
Today, Kyle and I have an excellent relationship. We've moved on from the fighting, and moved on from the relationship. I haven't completely moved on though. Although Kyle is now my best friend, I'm still in love with him. It hurts me when he tells me about this "new guy" he met and likes. It hurts to be close to him because all I want to do is kiss him. It hurts to just be a friend. I want more, but I don't think he does.
I can I get over him? I don't want to stop talking to him. He's such an important part of my life. But I know that I can't go on feeling like this. It'll drive me crazy. How can I move on from the man that I once called my soulmate?
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