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july2_1991 · Mar 31, 2009, 11:23 PM

Hey guys, I am new on this thread... I just wanted to briefly tell you all about my ex girl friend and me. So, she broke up with me about 3 months back and said she needed space, and I accepted that even though I wanted to change things, soon I started giving her space and she thought I didn't care much, so then again I started to call her and talk to her things were going OK as FRIENDS. She even went for a movie with me. But as of today we haven't talked for over a week now and she hasn't called me and neither have I and she hints that she's been moving on by telling my friend on Facebook that she's never been this happy in a year and she's having such a good time with her friends and having loads of fun, she even told one of her friends that she thinks she likes this guy in her skol, the ironic thing is while I was with her this same guy was considered by her as her brother... so I dunt know what to do now, I was planning to give her a call next week.. and this Friday it was to be our 1 year anniversary. If you guys can help me out, I would appreciate it. I just don't know what to do now.

kctiger · Apr 1, 2009, 05:51 AM

It is clear she has moved on, and her feelings for you have changed. You CANNOT remain friends with her for the time being, as every little bit of contact will put some sort of false hope in your head. She seems to be all right with having you as a friend, when convenient, and nothing more. I doubt you can handle that, and you shouldn't be expected to. Back off, leave her alone, and get on with your life. It's hard, it sucks, but it is life. Good luck.

july2_1991 · Apr 6, 2009, 05:11 AM

Hey guys, I haven't talked to my ex girl friend since 2 weeks now, I am planning on giving her a call this week and I just would like to know what do I say to her and how do I talk?

ylaira · Apr 6, 2009, 05:14 AM

Ex? Bad idea. Don't call, don't text, don't greet happy birthday, happy holy week, don't contact. Stay ghost. You will just hurt yourself after wards. Resist the urge else it will take you longer to move on. Remember, going no contact is not because you're retaliating or you're being boastful. You're doing this to move on. Switch your attention to other things. You're just 18, so learn this coping techniques now.

talaniman · Apr 6, 2009, 06:10 AM

She hasn't taken you back in 3 months so I doubt that will change and by what you have written she has moved on and is having a great time. I suggest you do the same and leave her alone and take care of your own life.

You can't force love, or friendship, on any one.