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    Mar 28, 2009, 08:53 PM
    I'm gay and I have 2 chrushes
    Okay so recently I just got a job and I've been working there for about 4 weeks now and I caught an eye on this boy, he's really cute and he has a great personality. But I don't know if he likes me and I want to find out now, he never talks about girls around me and he doesn't be flirting/joking with me so I don't know really.

    Then I have this other boy around where I live at and he is sooooo cute its ridiculous, and the first time I met him was in the library and I kept looking at him and he looked at me but I never said anything to him, so few weeks later he becomes friends with my brother and some how we become friends, and we talk and one day he ran down the stairs and slickly touched my butt and I don't know if he did it just to be playing or did it cause he liked it.

    Still I don't know if either of these boys like me and I want to know because I'm not coming out in my teen years there's no way I have school, plays, acting/singing classes there's no way so please help me, I need to know I'm twisted.

    Both of them are awesome but I don't think both are gay, I only think one is or neither.

    Thnks for your time
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    Mar 28, 2009, 09:02 PM
    The best course of action is to get to know them well enough to tell if they are trust worthy or not.

    If your still in the closet, any overt action, especially at work, could be a disaster. I understand your interest, but don't assunme without the proper facts.
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    Mar 28, 2009, 09:08 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by talaniman View Post
    The best course of action is to get to know them well enough to tell if they are trust worthy or not.

    If your still in the closet, any overt action, especially at work, could be a disaster. I understand your interest, but don't assunme without the proper facts.
    But how do I get to know them better
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    Mar 28, 2009, 09:14 PM

    Talking and listening. And time.
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    Mar 28, 2009, 10:35 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by talaniman View Post
    Talking and listening. And time.
    Okay thank you, but the secound guy I like I'm more into into him more so should I try to closer with him or both

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