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crazybird · Mar 12, 2009, 11:22 PM

Originally Posted by crazyoverher

those are good points....but she is so loving when things are going great. thats why its so hard for me to let her go....another thing....she is f...kn so beautiful....face, body...everything! when we go anywhere, men and women look at her! anyway, we do have BIG drama..it seems like its a rollercoaster up and down....but when its goood its great! ive tried to tell her not to throw any more tantrums and she says: then dont piss me off and you knew that i was like this.....

so now what? what do you suggest i do?

You need to wake up, then grow up and be a man! Tell her to pound sand and make love to herself in the mirror. I am sure there are people out there who can see what she is, why can't you?
If she loved you she wouldn't treat you badly. If she loved you she wouldn't play games, throw tantrums and break up. You are enthralled with her beauty. But what truly lays underneath that beautiful epidermis of hers is a sick and cruel person. Is this beating she's giving you worth wasting your valuable life for? There are many other beautiful, sexy women in this world who are good natured people.
You are not in a relationship that is worth holding on to. Because this is not a relationship. She will toy with your emotions as long as she can. She is not a kind individual. You may as well let her go now, because it is just a matter of time till she gets bored playing with you and finds a new sucker to drive crazy. She is unstable. Things can get much worse with her you know. As she gets older she may possibly become meaner an even having you do things you know are wrong. Is this the life you want? One last thing. She loves when you come crawling! It feeds her twisted ego. Take this experience to gain a little wisdom in this area. There could be a real winner out there for you if you let go of this and move on. Be strong.

crazybird · Mar 12, 2009, 11:36 PM

What you are going through is not love. It an obsession of the physical body and sex. It really matters not who she is sleeping with. I understand that your emotions are awry right now but instead of getting anxious over who she is sleeping with you should be sooooooooo glad you are free from her and feel sorry for any other man who she does this to. If she were ugly you would never have been with her at all. The funny thing is she is truly ugly you just have blinders on!

crazyoverher · Mar 13, 2009, 07:59 AM

Well... thats an eye opener!

Thanks for telling me those comments!! It really fu#king helps me. I seem to keep forgeting all of that. I don't know why? Someone please tell me why I keep forgeting that?

I was going to give everyone an update: she emailed me just now asking me to reply to her request for me to recommend her. I emailed her back saying that I already did.

And, she began her email with my name instead of a term of endearment like she always does... ending it with : thanks :)

How about that? Well I was going to whine about that just now until I read those comments.. now I don't feel so worthless. But nonetheless.. what do you all think about this?

Comments please!

crazyoverher · Mar 13, 2009, 08:02 AM

I am enthralled with her beauty. I guess that's why I wanted/want her so much. She is a looker guys. I mean yummy.

But yeah, she is an ugly person on the inside. It has taken me a long time to come to realize that but I am slowly understanding this.

Justwantfair · Mar 13, 2009, 08:02 AM

Crazy,

You don't need our comments on how ridiculous it is to desire someone to call you hunny, sugarpie, sweet lips AFTER you have broken up.

You have one heck of a REALLY THICK skull on you there. Are you enjoying anything about you yet?

kctiger · Mar 13, 2009, 08:04 AM

I can't tell you how many hot girls I have met that I would love to just slam their head into a curb... looks aren't everything. If you can get her, why is it so hard to believe you can't get another "looker"?

Sorry to be so harsh and violent guys, but it is Friday, NCAA basketball is heating up, and I am pumped!

Carry on... :cool:

crazyoverher · Mar 13, 2009, 08:12 AM

Yeah I am stubborn... thanks for the reality check people!

And kctiger... ur right... I CAN get another looker.

Well now here's the problem... answer this for me please or how to handle it.

I KNOW her and she likes to toy with me just like the comments earlier said. So, when she comes back and now "wants" to be with me... how do I tell her no? I mean id rather SHE think she broke up with me.. u know? I don't want her to get psycho on me. I know that she would even though it seems that I'm way too crazy for her.

Please let me know what you would do!

kctiger · Mar 13, 2009, 08:14 AM

Are you afraid of her? I tell you what, I will handle this for you. Give her my email, and we can talk. Short, sweet, and I guarantee you she will leave you alone...

Continue carrying on... :cool:

talaniman · Mar 13, 2009, 08:15 AM

NC!! You're the only one who cares how beautiful and yummy she is, as we all know your tripping over small things and keeping this thread alive. Your business with her is done, so now what are you doing for yourself?

When she comes back and now "wants" to be with me... how do I tell her no

Yes!! NC!!

Justwantfair · Mar 13, 2009, 08:16 AM

Why do you want to deal with this?

You want to take all of your feelings back to day one? You want back onto the roller coaster? Come over here I will be happy to remove your nuts for you, since that would be the goal. Imagine how great you could feel to tell her that you are done being her punching bag.

So she might "want" to be with you again... and then she won't want to be with you again... and you can go right back to going through all of this from the beginning. You REALLY need to value yourself.

crazyoverher · Mar 13, 2009, 08:22 AM

:)

Well said everyone. Well said.

:)

Ill keep u posted with the drama. Man, don't know where the hell id be without u guys. Probably on the end of a noose!

:)

UnluckyDucky · Mar 13, 2009, 08:24 AM

Originally Posted by crazyoverher

I am enthralled with her beauty. I guess that's why I wanted/want her so much. She is a looker guys. I mean yummy.

But yeah, she is an ugly person on the inside. It has taken me a long time to come to realize that but I am slowly understanding this.

Beauty is commonplace. Every corner you turn, every street you cross, you're bound to run into a beautiful girl or two. What is truly rare is when run into a person who has their crap together and is not a complete headcase that likes to play mindgames with you.

I KNOW her and she likes to toy with me just like the comments earlier said. So, when she comes back and now "wants" to be with me... how do I tell her no? I mean id rather SHE think she broke up with me.. u know? I don't want her to get psycho on me. I know that she would even though it seems that I'm way too crazy for her.

You don't tell her anything because you'd be encouraging her even further to play more games with your head and emotions. Do yourself a favor and cut off all contact. No more "excuses" to communicate with her. No more false hope. Start with an stick with NC!

I mean its cool if you're aiming for a post count record.. power to you buddy.. but seriously no more excuses OK? You'll thank yourself 20 replies from now (and if I'm wrong I'll just edit my post and change the 20 to however many it takes for you to get it). I promise.

crazyoverher · Mar 13, 2009, 08:28 AM

Thanks unlucky ducky!

crazyoverher · Mar 13, 2009, 08:30 AM

Trying to understand myself... help me out:

Why is it that I'm so strong in the daytime and then at night I fall "victim" to my emotions?

Just curious... anyone been through that? A little help please for tonight...

kctiger · Mar 13, 2009, 08:31 AM

You feel more alone at night, and in the morning. Usually all you have are your thoughts, as you aren't very busy.

Justwantfair · Mar 13, 2009, 08:32 AM

Because you are laying in bed and thinking about her I would imagine. Start taking a book to bed with you, read until you pass out. Then you aren't just lying in bed thinking.

kctiger · Mar 13, 2009, 08:33 AM

Originally Posted by Justwantfair

Because you are laying in bed and thinking about her I would imagine. Start taking a book to bed with you, read until you pass out. Then you aren't just lying in bed thinking.

Copy cat... ;)

crazyoverher · Mar 13, 2009, 08:38 AM

Cool beans. Makes sense.

Thankx.

Justwantfair · Mar 13, 2009, 08:39 AM

Hopefully things will start getting easier.

Previous post edited: To prevent any lawsuits from kctiger Inc.

heartbroke · Mar 13, 2009, 09:05 AM

Ya read a book or watch some TV, something funny, late night comedy. Whatever you do, do not drink! It's a depressant. Im still too stupid to give up on my ex after we broke up 2 months ago. I think about her wherever I go, when I sleep when I wake up. I still keep breaking NC. I guess I don't have the will power. I might be taking another trip to leave this environment again, the Caribbean did me some good, but I was alone with no friends or family. So another trip to see family overseas may help me more. The thing to do is keep busy or your thoughts will consume you. The thing is most people review their day by the end of the night which gets your brain in the thinking process.