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SAB123 · Feb 11, 2009, 07:49 AM

I agree with everyone about getting her stuff back by a third party. The nice guy I am I told my ex I would drop off her son's bed at a certain time and guess what their was another guy there. I was so hurt that it set me back about 2-3 weeks in my healing process. One thing I did learn from this experience is what you don't know won't hurt you. And it happen several more time down road because I wanted to know what she was up too. BIG mistake. As TAL told me 2 years ago make sure she gets everything back.

DJ28 · Feb 11, 2009, 04:35 PM

Yeah, so I left her best "girlfriend" a email telling her what's up and how I feel about wanting to get her bike back to her. I left it on myspace and on there it tells you if they have read it or not, well she read it and honestly I don't know if she will write me back. So if this route doesn't work on getting her, her bike back what route should I take now. I mean I want to get it back to her now so when summer hits the ex doesn't call me up wanting it, and ruin my progress of NC. And one problem I have is that the ex moved over the weekend so I don't know where she lives, and I can't just leave it there for her. Sooo I'm kind of out of ideas.

SAB123 · Feb 12, 2009, 08:12 AM

They usually leave things behind in case they can't find no one new or if the new person their with doesn't work out they can get back into your life like that. But don't read into what I said here, If she doesn't pick it up drop it off at her parents or friends and that will be the end of that.

DJ28 · Feb 12, 2009, 08:16 AM

Yeah I'm dropping it off at her friends house on Friday, I just want it to be the end of it and over.

SAB123 · Feb 12, 2009, 08:20 AM

Originally Posted by DJ28

yeah im dropping it off at her friends house on Friday, i just want it to be the end of it and over.

I waited about a 2 months to drop her stuff off and seeing her with a guy their I went back to square one so that 2 months of healing was thrown out the door. So do it and don't question yourself and keep it there hoping she comes and gets it and you get back together.

kctiger · Feb 12, 2009, 08:27 AM

If it's me... I put it on Ebay. I mean, if she really wanted it that bad, she would have picked it up already. Seriously, it shouldn't be this big of a deal. Trash it, or sell it, that is my outlook on it.

Romefalls19 · Feb 12, 2009, 08:30 AM

I like the eBay trick, at least make money off the issue.

kctiger · Feb 12, 2009, 08:31 AM

Originally Posted by Romefalls19

I like the ebay trick, at least make money off of the issue.

Make some money, buy yourself a new outfit, and go out on the town... YEAH BABY!!

jmw0713 · Feb 12, 2009, 08:46 AM

Common now, lets show some class here.;) Ebay would not be the classy thing to do with someone else's stuff.

Honestly, how would you feel if your ex auctioned your stuff one eBay? :D (Don't tell me you wouldn't care... LOL)

I'm all for the 3rd party delivery idea. If it was me, I would deliver the stuff myself, but not everyone can do this.

kctiger · Feb 12, 2009, 08:47 AM

I knew that my stuff left at her place was as good as gone. I can get new stuff... talking to her to get it back wasn't worth it to me.

Just my opinion.

Romefalls19 · Feb 12, 2009, 08:47 AM

Wrong person to ask, my ex still hasn't returned some of my stuff and also owes me over $100, I just wrote it off so I don't care what happened to it.

SAB123 · Feb 12, 2009, 08:56 AM

Same here, I never got some small items back and I never got back my $7500.00 engagmement ring along with 1/2 her boobs I paid for which I never really saw... LOL

DJ28 · Feb 12, 2009, 09:34 AM

Originally Posted by SAB123

Same here, I never got some small items back and I never got back my $7500.00 engagmement ring along with 1/2 her boobs I paid for which I never really saw....LOL

Oh man that would be really tough, that's a lot of wasted money.

SAB123 · Feb 12, 2009, 09:41 AM

Originally Posted by DJ28

oh man that would be really tough, that's a lot of wasted money.

Oh you, I found out last August she was engaged to someone else and she left him a week before wedding, HMMMM.. wonder if he got his ring back.

DJ28 · Feb 12, 2009, 09:53 AM

Haha man I'm wondering if she just dates people to scam them, and pawn the rings she gets. Wonder how much she has made so far?

SAB123 · Feb 12, 2009, 10:01 AM

Well I do know she has her ex husbands, mine and I don't know if this new guy and her got back together or what. But I'm sure it's a lot... LOL, But I personally think she's Bi-polar? I'm just glad she broke up with me before I started dishing out a lot more money on wedding.

kctiger · Feb 12, 2009, 10:02 AM

Originally Posted by SAB123

Well I do know she has her ex husbands, mine and I don't know if this new guy and her got back together or what. But I'm sure it's alot...LOL, But I personally think she's Bi-polar? I'm just glad she broke up with me before I started dishing out alot more money on wedding.

If it was me, I would tell her I want my boobs back... or at least I should get visitation once a month...

Romefalls19 · Feb 12, 2009, 10:08 AM

Originally Posted by kctiger

If it was me, I would tell her I want my boobs back...or at least I should get visitation once a month...

Had to spread it but I seriously just busted out laughing in my office! That's funny, "Umm...I'm here for my monthly feel"

SAB123 · Feb 12, 2009, 10:15 AM

Originally Posted by kctiger

If it was me, I would tell her I want my boobs back...or at least I should get visitation once a month...

LOL... I did the same in my office, that was funny. Well I probably would want my one boob back as far as visitation once a month, that's all right after other guys had their paws on them I't wouldn't feel rite if you know what I mean... LOL

kctiger · Feb 12, 2009, 10:23 AM

Well, I believe you are thinking about this all wrong. Think of it as a business deal, and nothing else. Here is how the conversation goes:

You: "Hey, I want my boob back!"
Her: "What, are you crazy? You can't have it!"
You: "Well then, I will be over every other Friday at 6pm for a visitation with Mickey."
Her: "Who is Mickey?"
You: "It is what I named my bood, that is currently on your body. Please have Mickey ready for Daddy when I get there."

Either you get visitation, or you start charging fees for use of your property...

End of the deal... do work son.