[THEpurplepeanut]

He says he likes me, he acts like he likes me, he says he'll go out with me NEXT year (all because we are going to different schools at the moment, whatever), but I found out he's moving at the end of the year and he knew about that before all of this. I feel like he just stabbed me, if he really liked me he could have just told me that he was moving I would understand, but no, he had to be a big-fat-scum-bag- piece-of -lying-bastard and get my hopes up and then snatch 'em and crush 'em in the dirt. Sorry for my foul language but that's what he's being right now. I'm one of those people who give other people more than a second chance (one weakness of mine). I really like him,but he lied to me. My head knows it's right to move on but my heart thinks it's a bad idea. Got any advice for a girl who doesn't have any experience with this type of stuff? :(

[411Help]

First of all, you have to realize he said he "likes you" "he acts like he likes you" but.. how come he wants to wait till next year? And, was he implying a LDR (long distant relationship) you need to give me more information.

[THEpurplepeanut]

I don't know if he wants a ldr, I don't think it'll work because he's moving to North Carolina and I live in Illinois. We're one school year apart and so we go to different schools that's why he said "next year" he knew he was moving when he said "next year" and I found out about it because he's my brother's friend, and I found out he's going all "girl crazy" because my brother's complaining about how he's been dancing around trying to ask other girls out. If he really likes me wouldn't we be going out? And if he didn't like me he could have just told me, I'm not upset about him asking other people out, I'm upset that he expects me to wait and that he wasn't truthful with me about it. I don't think he likes me as much as he says he does.

[Wondergirl]

If he's girl crazy and trying to get other girls to go out with him, his telling you to wait until "next year" sounds like he's telling you not to hang around waiting for him, like it's a major brush-off, like "go away and don't let the door hit you in the rear" and "here's your hat, what's your hurry."

Don't wait, don't hope, and move on. You're much too young to sit around mooning over someone who isn't interested in you.

[krzekali89]

My manager told me this one...

Don't trust you head because it can go crazy

Don't trust your heart because it can get broken

Don't trusing anything below your waist because that just wants one thing.

TRUST you gut because if you have a gut feeling... its usually right.


I've lived on that saying since I heard it and I have no complaints about my life.

[411Help]

Ok, obviously, this guy doesn't like you. If he's going "GIRL CRAZY" for other females.

[AManWithNoName]

Well, tell your heart to take all of its feelings and shove it, I understand how you feel, but, your heart barley has the right answeres, its allways good to go with your head

[THEpurplepeanut]

Thanks, I have known him for almost 3 years and it's hard to do that, but I'll try