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    Oct 21, 2008, 01:20 PM
    I don't know if I'm pregnant
    Hi, I know a lot of adults may judge me because of this question, but I really do need all the help I can get. I had sex with my boyfriend a while ago, we usually use a condom, but we didn't once and I don't know if there's a possibility I could be pregnant. Some things that have been going on are I've been trying to lose weight and I cant, I don't know if that has anything to do with it, I've been light headed a lot, and now I'm bleeding but I shouldn't start my period for another week or so.. any help? Please? I'm scared :/
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    Oct 21, 2008, 01:21 PM

    Oh, and I'm 17 by the way. :(
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    Oct 21, 2008, 10:36 PM

    Wait until you have finished bleeding and get a pregnancy test. Do you have any free clinics nearby?
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    Oct 21, 2008, 10:42 PM

    Yeah I do.. there's a planned parenthood pretty close.. is it totally free do you know?
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    Oct 21, 2008, 10:48 PM

    Well when I was your age (5 years ago) it was free, but I had to pay for birth control 3 packs for 23 dollars, they also give out free condoms.
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    Oct 21, 2008, 10:50 PM

    I know this is totally crazy, but what about abortions if it did come down to that..

    I hate even the thought. Ahh.
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    Oct 21, 2008, 10:56 PM

    Depending on what state you are in, some planned parenthood clinics will pay for an abortion-however, a doctor there could refer you to who you need to see.
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    Oct 21, 2008, 10:57 PM

    Okay, thank you so much for helping me.. and I'm in California, if that's any help
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    Oct 21, 2008, 10:59 PM

    Oh, well California is usually pretty lenient about those kind of things :)
    I hope everything works out OK for you!
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    Oct 21, 2008, 11:02 PM

    For sure, I got pregnant while I was on the pill!
    You may want to speak with them about getting put on birth control, and still use condoms-you would be less likely to get pregnant.
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    Oct 21, 2008, 11:03 PM
    Is there any reason you can't talk to either of your parents? (other than they might try to kill you? :) )
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    Oct 21, 2008, 11:06 PM

    Haha well my mom doesn't care if I have sex, she actually asks me if I'm going to so she can put me on the pill.. but I don't really want to tell her because its awkward but I think she might put me on it soon anyway.. and how crazy, pregnant on the pill? Yeah ill definitely use both until I'm ready for that situation
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    Oct 21, 2008, 11:08 PM

    Good, seriously though as awkward as it is you should just say hey mom-I'm starting to get serious with my boyfriend and I think it would be the responsible thing to do, to start taking birth control. Well I have to start getting ready to go to bed- I'm in Ohio and it's after 2am!
    Later lovebug- I'll 'see' you around!
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