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    ChVonne Posts: 3, Reputation: 1
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    Oct 17, 2008, 10:27 AM
    We were drunk and volatile, now we're sober and boring
    My partner and I spent the 1st 2 yrs drinkging daily and this only created drama and discourse. We've been sober 3mo and I feel emotionally flat towards him. I love him and life is SO much simpler, but I need advice on how to re-light the fire b/n us. I'm restless and discontent (as usual,) but I want advice on how to kick this feeling and begin enjoying sober activities together... that I actually remember this time!
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    Oct 17, 2008, 02:32 PM

    Well get involved in soemthing that you guys might like to do. You just have to also be more creative, I had the same problem when I became clean then I statred going to aa I found a great group of friends we go out all the time there is always something going on with aa, its not all structure and business it's a place to stay sober meet some great people and have some fun...
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    Oct 18, 2008, 07:37 PM

    Congratulations on being sober. I am genuinely happy for you. I have every faith and confidence in you to resolve your (new) relationship issues.

    How to spice it up? No clue from me. Let's just say I'm 3 months behind you, and counting. Good luck. God bless.
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