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    #581

    Sep 24, 2008, 05:22 PM
    Awww, gosh Alty and Guy... you guys going to be all right?
    Big's, I hope you ate already;)
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    #582

    Sep 24, 2008, 05:22 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by startover22 View Post
    Awww, gosh Alty and Guy...you guys gonna be alright?
    Big's, I hope you ate already;)
    Me? Maybe... after I think and have a glass of tea..
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    #583

    Sep 24, 2008, 05:26 PM
    All right then, go get your tea and think... I wish you well.
    AND if I may say so myself, let this "bad" thing turn into a good thing... think think think before we act. As I always say... well, at least the last month it has been my motto. Never say yes when you really mean no. It hurts you and others you are saying it to. Always be honest with your feeling with another person, even if you think it may offend them, be honest, you got to be otherwise it is all for nothing.:) Oh crap Guy, who am I... I am sorry you are hurt, really sorry.
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    #584

    Sep 24, 2008, 05:33 PM

    I'm sorry Guy. I know it hurts! Try and remember that although it's hard, and hurts especially bad when you're young and you're first going through it, that it's meant to teach you things.

    Right now just have your tea, and go through what you need to and should. You're allowed to do that. Everyone's allowed to do that.

    Sorry Guy, it's never fair is it!
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    #585

    Sep 24, 2008, 05:34 PM

    Sure did Starty :)

    Had a Turkey burger and some corn...

    I have to hit the library soon then probably have a snack when I get back... Stupid school work.
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    #586

    Sep 24, 2008, 05:49 PM

    Guy, you know me, I'll give it to you straight. :)

    This sucks, it really does, and it hurts, boy does it ever, and, sadly, you'll never forget it. :(

    Good news, you will get over it and feel better. Bad news, it probably won't be the last time. Okay news, the next time it will still hurt, but you'll handle it better.

    This is one of the wonderful bumps in the road of life, and gosh do they come up unexpectedly, and darnit, you always trip over it. Lots more bumps, trust me. Heck, even at my age there are still bumps, and they're still a surprise.

    You're a level headed guy, a good guy, a nice guy, don't let this change who you are, and remember, it's not your fault, but hers. Okay?

    We're here if you want to talk. :)
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    #587

    Sep 24, 2008, 05:54 PM

    Just an update for whom it may concern...

    My wife is feeling better, but still has to take it easy she has been in touch with her neurologist...

    As far as work, took today off, but I missed quite an intense day. Apparently they announced that a deal is in the works that everything is going to move to a knew location so there is a great possibility that our plant is being closed for good.

    Well that is my news for today. Sitting back relaxing and taking it easy...

    Joe
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    #588

    Sep 24, 2008, 05:56 PM

    Eek... sorry guy, that's rough news... Plenty of people here have been thorough the same time, or something similar, so don't hold back saying anything you want advice on...

    Joe - I hope things work out with your wife, I hope she is better soon...
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    #589

    Sep 24, 2008, 05:58 PM

    Joe, I'm so sorry. You know that we're here if you need to talk, you can PM me, or email me, heck I could give you my number, you can call me. Anytime sweetie, day or night. Okay?
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    #590

    Sep 24, 2008, 06:03 PM

    CTV.ca | ADHD drugs should be last resort: new guidelines

    Check this news article out Alty.
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    #591

    Sep 24, 2008, 06:09 PM

    I'm glad that your wife is feeling a bit better Joe! Give her my get well wishes for me okay?
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    #592

    Sep 24, 2008, 06:10 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Jesushelper76 View Post
    Just an update for whom it may concern......

    My wife is feeling better, but still has to take it easy she has been in touch with her neurologist...

    As far as work, took today off, but I missed quite an intense day. Apparently they announced that a deal is in the works that everything is going to move to a knew location so there is a great possibility that our plant is being closed for good.

    Well that is my news for today. Sitting back relaxing and taking it easy...

    Joe
    Joe, what? What in the heck was going on? Same thing. Tell Proud I say hello, and send her my love and lots of soft hugs. Joe, I haven't been reading back... so I hadn't known. I am sorry I missed this...
    Sit back and relax, wait for the real news, not the "talk news" you moving to Oregon then?:):)
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    #593

    Sep 24, 2008, 06:22 PM

    Sorry guy for your experience... You know that everyone here are friends, etc...

    Thank you everyone... for the well wishes.
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    #594

    Sep 24, 2008, 06:38 PM

    Joe you have enough to handle, I pray that this is only a rumor or speculation.

    Talk with us when you feel you want to.

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    #595

    Sep 24, 2008, 06:43 PM
    Guy, what Alty says is correct in every way. But you didn't do anything wrong here, if she cheated on you. Not your fault, no guilt.

    And yeah it does suck, my first wife did it on me... and I went through all kinds of self doubt. But I got stronger and I learned some things about myself in the process. I cannot control everything for one... all things that happen to me are not my fault... and that she was not at all what I thought she was.

    Eventually I leaned that I could trust again and that when I did I benefited by finding someone that was much more a woman than my first wife ever was.

    Stringer
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    #596

    Sep 24, 2008, 07:00 PM

    I'm feeling better...
    Its just.. It doesn't seem like her...
    I didn't know whether to believe it or not at first because I hadn't known about it until earlier today
    Granted I broke up with her Monday but still. She was doing it before I broke up
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    #597

    Sep 24, 2008, 07:34 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Jesushelper76 View Post
    Thanks so much Joe. :)

    Now, don't worry about getting me info, you take care of yourself, you have enough on your plate.

    I wish I could just give you a big hug Joe, make it all better. Sadly I don't have those powers, but I do have ears, and they are great at listening. I PM'd you my phone number, call anytime you need to talk, okay? I mean it, really do, so do it, I'll be here. If I'm not then leave a message and I'll call back.

    Remember, we're all here for you, I know I speak for all of us. :)
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    #598

    Sep 24, 2008, 07:36 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by theguywithnolife View Post
    I'm feeling better....
    Its just..It doesn't seem like her...
    I didn't know wether to belive it or not at first because I hadn't known about it until earlier today
    Granted I broke up with her Monday but still. She was doing it before I broke up
    Guy, we're all here if you want to vent, get it off your chest, or just to talk.

    Trust me, someone better will come along, someone that deserves a nice guy like
    You. Mark my words, it's the truth.

    :)
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    #599

    Sep 24, 2008, 08:03 PM

    Holy cow. So I was speed-reading the posts to catch up, and somehow got Jesus's story and Guy's story blended, and I had this idea that Jesus's wife was sick and cheated on him.. . so sorry.

    Jesushelper (shortening it to Jesus makes me feel blasphemous), I'm so sorry your wife's sick, but glad she's feeling better. Hope things work out in the end.

    Guy, you know what to do. Hope she cheated on you with some idiot.
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    Sep 24, 2008, 08:05 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by theguywithnolife View Post
    I'm feeling better....
    Its just..It doesn't seem like her...
    I didn't know wether to belive it or not at first because I hadn't known about it until earlier today
    Granted I broke up with her Monday but still. She was doing it before I broke up
    After a breakup we learn a lot of things about people we don't necessarily want to know. That's the reason for the NC approach. In all, none of it matters at this point, hard as it is to realize, you need to start living for yourself, and not for someone who doesn't exist anymore...

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