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    #41

    Aug 22, 2008, 01:18 PM
    Enjoy the slow time of getting to know him more... like Tal said, it's only been three weeks... there may be a lot of pinned up feelings there, but just take you time. Is it really that big of a deal that his myspace status says he's in a relationship? You don't want to be too over powering or else you could push him away...
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    #42

    Aug 22, 2008, 01:28 PM
    Careful... One wrong step here could work against you.

    Like it has been said, guy time, give him his guy time and I would be willing to be you end up seeing him sometime this weekend anyway.

    The myspace thing? Leave it alone. Until you are in a truly committed relationship where he is reciprocating your feelings openly this could blow up in your face.
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    #43

    Aug 22, 2008, 03:45 PM
    To POST #4: Ivory0921 disagrees: Its sad? That's IT??
    Um, no, that's NOT it. That post had two more paragraphs, the last which was very positive.

    Um, post #4 was month ago? My second post #16 also was positive and encouraging... and weeks later you admitted we were all pretty much leading you in the right direction.

    Why the sudden irritation with a post a month old? I don't believe my observation was actually wrong, either, your original story WAS sad... true, but sad. Today at least you're in a position to have SO much more in your life now that you're not walking that storyline anymore.

    Everyone here wants you to succeed. That's why we interact with people in moments of need. But we talk straight. And usually people can take it.

    You can take it, and you're doing better today that you were a month ago. I remind you to keep looking forward, that's where your success lies.
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    #44

    Aug 22, 2008, 03:52 PM
    It's MY QUESTION and I can disagree to the answers if I want to. :D
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    #45

    Aug 22, 2008, 04:22 PM
    Well, you WERE doing better. What's the new temper tantrum about? Something new happened you haven't shared with us? We're still here if you want to talk.

    Oh, and good job for being so truthful. You warned us in your very first sentence what to expect, didn't you. I like people who are know themselves and don't apologize for it. Good for you. (no sarcasm intended, I mean it.)

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